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He's circumcised
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Heyy guys,
This is probably going to sound so stupid... but my boyfriends circumcised. I've never been with anyone before who is, and I guess I don't reaaally know what to do!
When tossing him off and everything, do I have to do stuff differently? I don't really get how it'd work otherwise... very confused!
And, do I need to be more gentle or anything... anything else I should know really?
Thanks!
This is probably going to sound so stupid... but my boyfriends circumcised. I've never been with anyone before who is, and I guess I don't reaaally know what to do!
When tossing him off and everything, do I have to do stuff differently? I don't really get how it'd work otherwise... very confused!
And, do I need to be more gentle or anything... anything else I should know really?
Thanks!
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spit, lube, chip fat. its all good. his knob can dry out quick, causing friction, causing SITMCYHMK syndrome.
Sadly, gentle is the last thing he needs. With an intact guy you wouldn't want to touch any part of him that's normally covered by his foreskin (including the inner facing part of the foreskin as well as the glans) with anything that isn't soft and slippery, ever.
With a cut guy it doesn't matter. Instead of slinking his skin tube up and down the shaft and over the corona, you'll use light friction skin-against-skin, as the skin is not mobile. Even the corona can do with gentle friction since it has become tough and dry like the outside of your lips rather than moist and supple like tissue within your mouth.
A lot of cut guys like lube for manual stimulation, but many are fine with the friction if you get the right touch. Do be prepared to add some lube if you have intercourse, as the mechanics of sex are different without the gliding action of the slack skin. His corona will drag your lube out, his dry skin will absorb a lot of moisture, and the long strokes he's likely to use won't help keep moisture in either.
Have fun! Communicate.
I spoke to him about it last night as well, so it should be okay Feeling slightly less useless now haha!
... it's a thumb, honest....
Really nice to see people's different advice concerning your question - and it's also great to see you spoke to your boyfriend about this as communication is in fact the key. It may seem like all circumcised penises may have the same need, but in fact it truly depends on the individual person and what turns them on that matters! Have a look at this Askthesite question about oral sex;
Enjoy and do keep posting!