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Had an argument yesterday morning via facebook chat. Haha, I know, sounds pathetic.
Anyway we both said some things, and she said 'don't bother trying to call me or text me', which she has said before. I haven't really spoken to her since, other than a message to say good luck in exams.
Does she mean she doesn't want me to contact her until she contacts me? Or, now that it's been a day, does she want me following after her apologizing? Girls are spin out. Not that I will be apologizing first.
Anyway we both said some things, and she said 'don't bother trying to call me or text me', which she has said before. I haven't really spoken to her since, other than a message to say good luck in exams.
Does she mean she doesn't want me to contact her until she contacts me? Or, now that it's been a day, does she want me following after her apologizing? Girls are spin out. Not that I will be apologizing first.
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The unspoken rules of girl conversation flummox me as well and I'm meant to be one of them!
Seriously: Whatever you decide to do, don't make the decision with your dick.
If you're not really that bothered about contact with this girl then I'd just leave it, and chances are it will fizzle into nothingness.
exactly. In all seriousness, if you decide to apologize, wait and whack off before, if you still feel like apologizing afterwards, do it, if not, then you know why.
True; but OTOH, texting straight away probably isn't a good idea either.
As stu147 suggested, it depends on how you feel about this girl - and what the fight was about. Every girl means something different, and in this case it could mean anything, but perhaps it's up to you to decide what it means to you.
Surviving fights within couples can have its difficulties, yet it can also mean you learn more about the other person. For example you could see how you feel being apart from her due to this, and her from you. But if you are keen and want to sort it out, it's always good to make the first move
ETA I think she's forgiven you though - but you should buy the flowers or brownies anyway as they are nice to receive as random presents
I agree that they are nice, but much nicer received than sent. So wait until she sends you flowers or brownies.
Or what I want to say, don't apologize just so "it all goes away", just do it if you think you did something wrong.
You've got no chance mate. Waiting for a woman to cave first is like waiting for a pig to fly past your window. Unless she's done something blatantly and obviously wrong, ie cheated on you, it won't happen....ever....lol