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What Should I do?
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So I've got a boyfriend as which I've been having an off and on relationship with for 2 years. His cousin just recently moved into town and we've been hitting it off pretty well, better than I've ever had with my boyfriend. We've gone out a few times as friends, but then one time while we were seeing a movie he kissed me.
The problem is, my bf and him are really close, but i've started to have feelings for his cousin. I don't want their relationship to halt, but I'm starting to really like this dude more than my current bf.
Should I break up with my bf and go out with his cousin? Or should I just stay like that. I mean, my bf's kinda a jerk as opposed to his cuz. I'm confused.
So, I'm just asking you guys's opinions. What should I do?
The problem is, my bf and him are really close, but i've started to have feelings for his cousin. I don't want their relationship to halt, but I'm starting to really like this dude more than my current bf.
Should I break up with my bf and go out with his cousin? Or should I just stay like that. I mean, my bf's kinda a jerk as opposed to his cuz. I'm confused.
So, I'm just asking you guys's opinions. What should I do?
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Welcome to the boards :wave:
As suggested below, breaking up with your boyfriend should perhaps be based on reasons currently occurring in your relationship
You mention he is "kinda a jerk" and perhaps looking at this initially can help you make the decision of whether you want to be with him anyway or not. Evidently you can look at how you feel about his cousin - and how he feels about you.
Situations like this can be very confusing, and therefore perhaps going with your heart on this one can only get you to the right place. As StrubbleS mentioned, the cousin seems to be fine with kissing you and risking hurting your boyfriend. Perhaps you could speak to him about this and see where his feeling lie?
Let us know how you get on