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hey everyone, hope you are all well.
I havent been on here for absolutely ages because my life hasnt been to bad for the past few months.
right i need to tell you whats been goin on with my friend. Basically she was brought up in care and she has had a tough childhood etc. in august last year she moved in with me, my mum and my mums boyfriend. I always thought she was a happy go lucky person and always respected her for the way she is considering her past. She didnt want to sleep in a room on her own so she shared my bed everynight and it had never been a problem. But a few weeks ago we got some weed just to see what it was like and ended up having sex......I know I regret it so much now. We never really spoke about it until she started acting a bit possesive, like evertime I wanted to go out she would sulk and get pissed off.
One day I came home and sat on the sofa with her and told her that I didnt think it was a good idea that she should sleep in my bed anymore.....then she goes quiet and doesnt talk to me. I go out and leave her for a bit and then i get a call saying that shes going away for a week to think about stuff.
Of course I was a bit upset but I left her to do what she wanted. I was texting her last week while she was away and she was just replying really bluntly. I got annoyed so I rang her and asked what the hell was the matter.she told me that she was inlove with me and that I had stamped all over her heart!
I packed all her stuff and now she is staying with someone else. She has always left everywhere she lives because she cant get on with anyone while living with them, im just another victim it feels like :-(
we are talking now but she is different with me and i know our friendship will never be the same again......I don't know how to go about it because I dont think there is anything i can do now to change anything :-(
Someone if you have any advise it would be great, sorry it is so long!!!!
Love to all
Anna
xx
I havent been on here for absolutely ages because my life hasnt been to bad for the past few months.
right i need to tell you whats been goin on with my friend. Basically she was brought up in care and she has had a tough childhood etc. in august last year she moved in with me, my mum and my mums boyfriend. I always thought she was a happy go lucky person and always respected her for the way she is considering her past. She didnt want to sleep in a room on her own so she shared my bed everynight and it had never been a problem. But a few weeks ago we got some weed just to see what it was like and ended up having sex......I know I regret it so much now. We never really spoke about it until she started acting a bit possesive, like evertime I wanted to go out she would sulk and get pissed off.
One day I came home and sat on the sofa with her and told her that I didnt think it was a good idea that she should sleep in my bed anymore.....then she goes quiet and doesnt talk to me. I go out and leave her for a bit and then i get a call saying that shes going away for a week to think about stuff.
Of course I was a bit upset but I left her to do what she wanted. I was texting her last week while she was away and she was just replying really bluntly. I got annoyed so I rang her and asked what the hell was the matter.she told me that she was inlove with me and that I had stamped all over her heart!
I packed all her stuff and now she is staying with someone else. She has always left everywhere she lives because she cant get on with anyone while living with them, im just another victim it feels like :-(
we are talking now but she is different with me and i know our friendship will never be the same again......I don't know how to go about it because I dont think there is anything i can do now to change anything :-(
Someone if you have any advise it would be great, sorry it is so long!!!!
Love to all
Anna
xx
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Try not to worry about blame, who's hurt whom and why, etc., that won't get you anywhere.
Hope it works out.
Thankyou for all your comments
xx