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Should I ask my girlfriend to spank my balls?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Ok, so I find the idea of being tied up and having my balls spanked gently with a riding crop to be highly erotic.

My question is really for the females, what would you think if you're boyfriend/husband/whatever suggested this to you? Would you be freaked out? Excited? Surprised?

My gf is pretty open minded sexually but I have been hesitant to disclose my ball busting fantasies to her....should I, or should I not?

:confused:

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you don't mind a male replying, have you taken your sexual relationship to the 'tying up' stage? If not, why not get there first - and then let the 'ball spanking' develop thereafter?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah it depends how far your other sexual practices have developed
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I wouldn't think it was weird or anything but than I have been known to experiment alot so I may be more open minded than most girls...

    Only one way to find out how she feels and that is to broach the subject. If you are in a loving relationship then you should be able to talk these things through with her without her freaking out, especially if she is open minded. Just make sure you let her know that she can say no if she isn't up for it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    rosierawrz wrote: »
    my bf finds it painful even when i accidentally elbow him slightly in the bollocks so I don't think a girl would really wana spank ur balls incase it hurts ya x
    Some people get off on that. It's kind of the point.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    how do you accidently elbow someone in the bollocks????

    are you really really short?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    SuzyCreamcheese wrote: »
    how do you accidently elbow someone in the bollocks????

    are you really really short?
    Oh, no, I just laughed so hard Ribena came out of my nose!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'd try and pop them for you Spliffie.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote: »
    I'd try and pop them for you Spliffie.

    This scares me :nervous:

    Is it wrong if I am also a little bit aroused?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    MoK wrote: »
    This scares me :nervous:

    Is it wrong if I am also a little bit aroused?

    Only if you're thinking about her popping mine, as opposed to yours.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Your other half would probably think there is something wrong with you - it is a very weird thing to be excited by, and secondly it's dangerous, your testicles were never designed to be used for that.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    user912 wrote: »
    Your other half would probably think there is something wrong with you - it is a very weird thing to be excited by, and secondly it's dangerous, your testicles were never designed to be used for that.

    I ain't talking about full-on ballbusting you silly little sausage, I said a gentle spanking. Have you never played sex games before? :confused:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't actually.

    One of my other fears for you would be that you would get deeper and deeper into it... those things have enormous psychological reactions, in other words you could end up wanting more.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :lol:

    Yeah, Spliffie, be careful. Today it might be a light spank on your testicles, but tomorrow you'll be wanting your girlfriend to stape gun your balls to the front of a Eurostar.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :lol:

    its a slippery slope
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    And it might lead to you wanting to do heroin and give teenagers abortions.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    user912 wrote: »
    I don't actually.

    One of my other fears for you would be that you would get deeper and deeper into it... those things have enormous psychological reactions, in other words you could end up wanting more.

    What's wrong with wanting more? 'Wanting more' does not equate with 'bad'.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Teagan wrote: »
    What's wrong with wanting more? 'Wanting more' does not equate with 'bad'.
    Indeedy deedy.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just as long as it doesn't become a fetish that you can't orgasm without, all's fair in love, war and anal sex.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    user912 wrote: »
    I don't actually.

    One of my other fears for you would be that you would get deeper and deeper into it... those things have enormous psychological reactions, in other words you could end up wanting more.

    You fear for me?

    Thanks for the LOL
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Arctic Roll wrote: »
    :lol:

    Yeah, Spliffie, be careful. Today it might be a light spank on your testicles, but tomorrow you'll be wanting your girlfriend to stape gun your balls to the front of a Eurostar.

    Don't fret yourself, I'm not planning any holidays to the continent.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    have you asked her yet?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *giggles*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Evenstar wrote: »
    have you asked her yet?

    Sweartheart, that's a rather private question.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Gis an answer.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote: »
    Gis an answer.

    Write me an ode to my greatness and I'll gie ye an answer.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Spliffie is spiffing and has smashing balls
    I'd like to grind them right down to the core
    Spank them and slap them until they're red raw
    More he cries, more he cries- can't get enough
    well, don't look at me dear, I'm not your piece of fluff.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote: »
    Spliffie is spiffing and has smashing balls
    I'd like to grind them right down to the core
    Spank them and slap them until they're red raw
    More he cries, more he cries- can't get enough
    well, don't look at me dear, I'm not your piece of fluff.

    I said an ode to my greatness, not an ode to busting my balls eh

    try again sweartheart, this time write as if worshipping a demi-god

    thanks for the sex talk though, you just made me get a chubby.

    :cool:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    chubby, chortle.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :lol:
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