First Time Sex !!!

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  Former Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

  January 2011

  Hi Indyaa's friend, it's best to make your own account if you want to post to avoid confusion.
  
  First of all, assuming you're of age of course, I really really would recommend having sex with someone that you have a connection with, who you love and care about - not just because you want to lose it. It may not seem important to you now, but trust me, if you lose it to someone you don't care about you'll come to regret it in later life. It sounds to me like you haven't even met this boy before? Aside from really being quite dangerous to meet up with a stranger, or a friend of a friend, or anybody you don't know personally for sex, not knowing him means that the sex itself will be less enjoyable as you'll be even more nervous than you normally would be your first time.
  
  Which brings me to my second of all. You should not have to be worrying so much about pleasing him on your first time - it's your first time after all, he shouldn't be expecting you to be whipping out pornstar moves. It sounds as if you don't know very much about foreplay, and if this is the case I would again recommend that you don't have sex with him. You need time to experiment with what feels good for you and for him, and to let yourself get accustomed to this type of interaction before you go for full penetrative sex.
  
  The first time you have sex, as you know, can make you very nervous and the act itself can be painful. The best way to avoid this is by being with someone you feel safe and relaxed with or you will not be properly stimulated.

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