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Still trying with this girl
I asked this girl out the cinema and she seemed interested back in september, we met up but just for a drive and went hers after she invted me and we had sex. i since then have been texting and talking on the internet loads to her, since then i've met her a few times, and been to the cinema twice now, 2nd time last night. I have been trying to find out if we can be more than friends, she can be silly and funny at times, but when i ask her a question often she is just giving me a silly response and then dodging the question, she lives out of town so i can't see her face to face other than when we have occasionally met. I felt like things weren't going far with her so i tried to press her for how she felt with me and she told me eventually that she just wanted to be friends, and that i should blame her ex etc for making her feel like she didn't want a bf atm, about a week later she tells me shes happier and that i can take her out sometime soon. so i told her i would to take her out for a date (more than friends) and she was ok. Last night at the cinema was that date, and i was pleased she was with me, but things didn't feel 100% about things, i decided to try hold hands becuase that didn't happen first time at cinema in past, and it felt awkard like she seemed like she almost had to, i felt like i was grabbing and moving her hand at times, but she didn't say anything then and hasn't today or afterwards. she text me afterwards ssaying thanks for a nice evening and we should do it again soon sometime, and i told her anytime. She said she was going to invite me in at hers but she was too tired, but this was all after the date and i dont know how much of it to take seriously. I fear that its only been 24hours but i feel i have to go down the router of asking her whats possible with us again, but i hate having to go down that road with her, becuase it makes things akward between us. I really find her attractive and i've never been closer to a relationship i've wanted in my life, having never had one and being 26. i have text her in the past about whether she thinks im attractive and she just said to me it doesn't matter what she thinks, its about what i think and that she wouldn't bother with someone that she didn't like.. i dont know its been going on since september but i still want more with her... what to doo? arghh!!! please help someone.