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Male PE from a Female's POV
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What can I do about it? My BF is a very giving lover, our foreplay can last hours and he is one of two men ever to make me come. So I feel a bit selfish for asking about this, but what can I do to make him last longer? Orally, I know how to keep him going, but when we get down to it, sex only lasts a matter of minutes. I've tried the stop and go game, but it doesn't really help and cools me down too. I am hesitant to suggest or 'accidentally' buy performa, because well I'd be a bit put out in that position. Any ideas?
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I can only imagine that by the time you get down to the real deal he is just so worked up and excited that he is literally fit to burst :d
Have you tried cutting down the foreplay and getting down to it quicker, maybe he will last longer?
I guess it would bruise his ego to mention it but maybe you could say the Perfoma was a free sample from Ann Summers or something and just try it for a laugh sort of thing.
Or maybe this http://www.prowler.co.uk/lube-and-condoms/stud-delay-spray.html
I've used it with some success with an ex who came to quick.
WARNING - Don't suck his cock once he's put it on. Your mouth will go numb and it'll look like you've had a stroke. I speak from personal experience
lol i might try the wank thing. also lol. i have a six week wait before i can try any of this, which probably wont help matters. did your ext not take offense to the suggestion of the spray?
:yes: I've only done it a few times, usually during oral sex, but if you make a ring with your thumb and forefinger around the base of the shaft, and squeeze a little while simultaneously pushing down and back towards the testicles until the 'closeness' passes, it holds things back and prolongs the fun. Depends on the guy and how quickly he comes back from that, but might be worth a try.
Maybe you on top, so you can reach behind and under yourself?
You do realise we will all be waiting for an update lol :yes:
Also, cock rings, or numbing lube/condoms.
umm we broke up instead :S entirely unrelated, but for the best i think
Oh gosh i am really sorry to hear that *hug*
oh life is getting complicated now though. not a cut and dry break up.
were back together. he told me he loved me for the first time, and ive felt the same about him for a while. so even though he might be posted abroad soon and we might have to end, we're gunna enjoy the time we have.