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Btw. I wanted to commend on butterflykisses advice giving. I like it how you do not tell someone what s/he has to do, but make them realize themselves what they want to and should do.
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Okay erm... I'm going to speak to him later and tell him exactly what I think, even though I know he'll win. But the thing is, and I know you are all probably sick of my relationship issues, but if I dump him I'll loose so many contacts... Which isn't good.
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Seriously though, dump him. He sounds like a total loser.
??? This might be something I don't know about you, B-A, but contacts? I'm 23 and I'm only just starting to refer to people as 'contacts', and that's because I've been working for 8 years! Do you mean friends, or have you been networking for something?
Contacts as in... people who'll fight for you, who'll get stuff for you etc. I couldn't think of another word for it.
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Or do you need people around you that love and support you?
I was just like... what.The.Fuck. but he said it's a boy thing and he didn't mean it... *sighs* I can't be bothered to fight with him. It wont end well for me.
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Come on, you're smarter than this! If any other member on here posted this, you know what you would say to them.
You know its not 'a boy thing' and that it wont end well so why wait for the arguements and bitching to start? Get out with some dignity and self respect in the knowledge that you saw him for what he is before its too late.
Plus, if you're not with him, you wont have to argue with him at all
Thanks for the advice guys, I know what I should do but, it's just difficult. I have listened, sorry if it doesn't seem I have..
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I thought I was the only one that sees the "winner" in the dumper and the "loser" in the dumpee o.O Thought it was kinda backwards thinking so I never voice that.
Waiting for it is not very wise, Niamh. You will be way more emo than and probably do something stupid. If you race towards a cliff and notice you breaks do not work you get out of the car RIGHT this moment and don't say, "oh well, the car will come to an stop anyway once it crashes on the bottom of the pit.
You are doing exactly what he wants: Sticking with him and bear his outrageous actions. It is a tickle to him to see "how far he can go." Show him that you do not play in his lousy game and walk off.
Exactly this.
Do not do this to yourself. Don't.