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do you just come on here to insult people/put people down? cause thats all i ever see you do....
Yes I agree, but B-A has been through alot of stuff by the sounds of it, which has made her a mature young lady, if she wants to have fun, i say go for it! She knows the consequences to her actions, but shes mature and strong enough to handle them....and the times where she doesnt think she can handle the consequences, we are the ones that are going to be there for her :yes:
I dont know that B A that well but over the last few months i can tell you that i have discoverd she is a caring, thoughtful , open minded, very clever and mature young lady.
Perhaps other people who should have and probably did know better have been taking advantage of her.
There is nothing wrong with wanting someone to love you and in that search we all make mistakes and get hurt along the way.
The current situation as i see it was a posting about someone she fancied but didnt know wether to pursue and she was just asking advice, now she has meet someone who she clicks with and it seems has similar feelings for her.
Two young people exploring life and love whats wrong with that, dating at 13 doe's not have to mean the same as dating at 18.
Good luck BA XX
So whilst it's good it's good that people think of you as being mature for your age, I just hope people don't hold that against you at times or unfairly expect a more mature outlook on relationships, which perhaps some of the posters here might be in danger of doing.
B-A, don't listen to that idiot. He's more than likely jealous and the kind of idiot that would never say it to your face, but behind the mask of anonymity that comes from sitting behind a computer screen turns into Mr. Asshole. You deserve a chance to have fun, go for it *hug*.
So I don't even know what it's like to be to loved in that way, Geneve. I don't think I'll ever know. All I know is the pain that comes with unrequited
love. So I'm sorry for being so childish and wanting a bit of fun, or just someone to hug me. Oh and also, relationships are common at 13. My dad went out with the same girl from the age of 8 to the age of 20! So it can't all be that childish. Yeah, some people maybe aren't as mature in relationships or have sex young. There's a girl in the year above me who was pregnant, and a lot of people in my school have sex. It isn't JUST me. I don't know why you think 13 year olds are all innocent, Barbie loving, pink wearing, girlie girls. They aren't. I'd love to bring you to my school, you'd get a real wake up to what's reality.
Thanks everyone else.
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So, how did it work out? Did you give her a love letter that had a daisy duct taped onto it? Cuz that's how I rolled when I was 12.
And no... I just rang her on my lunch break, and she said she wanted to see me after school, alone... and then yea
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Damn it, when I was your age we had to ring the land-line, because cell phones were wet dreams, you always had to stutter your way around her mother or father or whoever picked up the phone...
Anyway, that went surprisingly easy Maybe I shouldn't fuck around so much with my girls of interest, just send them a text, "Wanna go out with me. check one of the following:
o yes
o maybe
o just sex"
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Strubbles new idea for a poll...