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Hey everyone.
Wow haven't been on here for a while but really need some help or advise.
Last thursday I tried to split up with my girlfriend. some of you may hav read another thread i wrote before where i had said that i didn't think i wanted the relationship anymore with my girlfriend.
It was awful because I told her when we went out for a walk and she got so upset that she punched a tree about 10times in a row and now her right had is grazed and she then lay on the path crying her eyes out. Of course I understand that she's going to be upset and I cried alot too because I have been with her for a long time and I am so used to her.
However Im in a sticky situation because she hasn't taken no for an answer, she wont let me go, she even came back with me this weekend to my mums and we slept in separate rooms and it was just really awkward but I even told her that i didnt want her coming. but she made me feel really bad because she hates going to back to where her mum and sister live so i gave in.
I have told her no so many time and she just wont listen, she keeps begging me and she wants to try again but I really don't want to. I probably sound like a really horrible person but she isnt letting me breath. I have tried going on a break with her in the past and it worked for a bit but now I have just grown out of the relationship
I don't know what to do because she is literally suffercating me. How can I sort this problem out because in my head we are not together anymore but she is still convinced that we are still together even though I have said no! Help xx
Wow haven't been on here for a while but really need some help or advise.
Last thursday I tried to split up with my girlfriend. some of you may hav read another thread i wrote before where i had said that i didn't think i wanted the relationship anymore with my girlfriend.
It was awful because I told her when we went out for a walk and she got so upset that she punched a tree about 10times in a row and now her right had is grazed and she then lay on the path crying her eyes out. Of course I understand that she's going to be upset and I cried alot too because I have been with her for a long time and I am so used to her.
However Im in a sticky situation because she hasn't taken no for an answer, she wont let me go, she even came back with me this weekend to my mums and we slept in separate rooms and it was just really awkward but I even told her that i didnt want her coming. but she made me feel really bad because she hates going to back to where her mum and sister live so i gave in.
I have told her no so many time and she just wont listen, she keeps begging me and she wants to try again but I really don't want to. I probably sound like a really horrible person but she isnt letting me breath. I have tried going on a break with her in the past and it worked for a bit but now I have just grown out of the relationship
I don't know what to do because she is literally suffercating me. How can I sort this problem out because in my head we are not together anymore but she is still convinced that we are still together even though I have said no! Help
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Good luck
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OH OH OH OR write her a letter. I always find letters are a very final way of saying something.
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thankyou brokn angel
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