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Dripping?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
I've noticed that straight after I've had sex and my boyfriend has came, stuff drips out of me everywhere. Is this meant to happen? Why isn't it staying up there?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When your boyfriend ejaculates inside you (remember that protection is important not just against pregnancy but also STIs so it may be worth considering using condoms unless you are both taxed and tested ;)) his semen and sperm will enter your cervix but a significant amount will remain in your vagina. After he has withdrawn this only has one place to go which is out.

    I recommend holding a tissue there for 5 minutes whilst he goes and makes you a cup of tea.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Haha, I always do that. Does most of the semen come out?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ShyBoy wrote: »
    I recommend holding a tissue there for 5 minutes whilst he goes and makes you a cup of tea.

    I recommend oral sex to clean up.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    its all about gravity
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    SuzyCreamcheese wrote: »
    its all about gravity

    Exactly, what goes up must come down so just be ready with the tissues or run to the bathroom quick
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    But isn't the whole point of sex is for the semen to go UP there and STAY up there?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No.

    That's why men fall asleep after sex - to keep the woman still to give things more time to "work"
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh right. So if lay down after sex for a while, none would drip out? Men don't go asleep.. my boyfriend goes for a ciggarette and it's me who feel like falling asleep.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think Big Gay was joking...
    Xx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    So what's the real answer then?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Whole point of sex is for one little sperm to go up there and stay up there, basic logic should hopefully suggest that generally what goes in must come out, otherwise your insides would fill up with sperm over time????
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    think of how much sperm there is... you really don't need all of it inside you.
    And Lyric, I really would reccomend you start using condoms more often. I mean, if you aren't preg now (which I think you probably are) then you might be in the future. Especially because you've said you miss taking the pill sometimes.
    Xx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it will pretty much all come out.

    The semen will liquify, and the sperm will move from it into the cervical mucus, the remainder of the semen will leave the body.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Broken-Angel wrote: »
    I think Big Gay was joking...
    Xx
    nope.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thank you. That's all I needed to know :) Just to see if I was normal or not.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    didn't they teach this stuff at school?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Big Gay wrote: »
    didn't they teach this stuff at school?

    Well to be fair to her, the first time i had sex with semen inside me I didnt even think about it afterwards, just went to sleep and woke up all ummm.... sticky...:yuck: I learnt after that.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lexi99 wrote: »
    Well to be fair to her, the first time i had sex with semen inside me I didnt even think about it afterwards, just went to sleep and woke up all ummm.... sticky...:yuck: I learnt after that.
    This is why I did it in the shower ;).
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Big Gay wrote: »
    didn't they teach this stuff at school?

    Haha! The sex ed lessons don't really cover sex... it's more reproduction. I remember a couple of years back one boy (in all seriousness) asked what a vagina was and how he used one :lol:
    Xx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah, we didn't learn about actual sexual intercourse in school.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    http://www.cultofmac.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/DoubleFacePalm.jpg

    Are you sure you really don't want to go to the doctor (referring to your other thread) and start using reliable protection if by any miracle you are not pregnant?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yes.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :yuck: Sounds delightful, i really can't wait :rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Louisek wrote: »
    :yuck: Sounds delightful, i really can't wait :rolleyes:

    :confused:

    EDIT: i thought your signature was your reply oops! haha
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    geneve wrote: »
    Your first time? Kinky. ;)

    No. My first time was lying on a beanbag in his lounge with shitty music going in the background.

    I was talking about my first time sans condoms.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Loved Up Blonde wrote: »
    :confused:

    EDIT: i thought your signature was your reply oops! haha
    That has really made me smile i'm giggling like a loon !
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    80s powerballad as your sig. Nice!!! :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    SuzyCreamcheese wrote: »
    80s powerballad as your sig. Nice!!! :)
    Yeah my mum kept playing it a few years ago i don't know who its by but that song just got stuck in my head
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Louisek wrote: »
    That has really made me smile i'm giggling like a loon !

    haha when i first read it i was like, whats china and dreams got to do with anything :confused: haha :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    T Pau- china in your hands.... classic. :thumb:
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