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First time anal..

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Any tips people? I'm interested in doing it soon...I've heard to invest in butt plugs, lube, get drunk beforehand :chin:

More importantly, does it hurt?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    dont get drunk
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lube, a little play, and go on top.

    If it hurts, you're doing it wrong.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i wouldnt bother with butt plugs, just see how it goes.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would suggest trying it in a spooning position then you can control how deep you allow your man to thrust, lots of lube is essential as your anal passage does not self lubricate.

    I would also recommend you talk about it with your man and ask him to really go slow and not push himself inside you all at once with the first thrust.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I Know This Sounds Really Bad But Ive Done It a Couple Of Times and The way i find it less painful was when we went from sex to anal very quickly and i was kind of high on weed and found it much less painful then the last times oh and lube helps too x
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