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Im really lonely...
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I dont know what to do now. I have tried making new friends since my bf dumped me a few months ago but we shared friends and even the friends that were mine before keep hanging around with my ex and ignoring me. I made a new set of friends but have had to stop hanging out with them because one of their GFs is paranoid about me 
People at work (which im now not at) were nice but clicky with each other and I didnt stand much of a chance. And people at college like me but are always talking about what a great time they all had the other night without me. My best friend went to Bristol and everytime he comes back here he doesnt call me anymore and is with my ex all the time. I dont know what to do. Im not mean or anything and people say they like me. Yet they ignore my calls or dont call me or invite me out. I feel so sad. I miss my ex and my old life with friends around me and stuff. I look in my phone and theres not one person I can call to just say 'wanna do something today?' Im easy going so I dont see the problem 
Its been like 5 months of this now and I dont know what to do anymore.
Thankyou everyone.
People at work (which im now not at) were nice but clicky with each other and I didnt stand much of a chance. And people at college like me but are always talking about what a great time they all had the other night without me. My best friend went to Bristol and everytime he comes back here he doesnt call me anymore and is with my ex all the time. I dont know what to do. Im not mean or anything and people say they like me. Yet they ignore my calls or dont call me or invite me out. I feel so sad. I miss my ex and my old life with friends around me and stuff. I look in my phone and theres not one person I can call to just say 'wanna do something today?' Im easy going so I dont see the problem Its been like 5 months of this now and I dont know what to do anymore.Thankyou everyone.
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You do realise that they are likely talking about the good night they had, the fact that it was good because they had fun, they probly are not saying it was good because you were not there.
As for saying you dont have someone to call and say "want to do something today" I quite enjoy just going out and doing something on my own.
If you are constantly thinking you need someones presense or help to enjoy yourself, then you might be setting yourself up to fail.
Learn to enjoy yourself, and then the friends are a bonus
at least i am not the only one you sound like your a bit more popular than you think. why not try inviting your college friends out as opposed to being invited out.
try not to think of finding socialising difficult as any reflection on you or your personality. just take a risk thats what i rekon lol x:)
oh and it might not mean alot to you but hearing someone talk like that is horrible, i understand suicide quite well i think and its a disgusting horrible drk scary lonely place to be in. but anyway i was gonna say... i no it probably doesnt mean alot to you but i care x