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All alone
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I have always struggled to deal with rejection. I don't mind being single and if someone doesnt like you then they dont like you. Unfortunately i always get reljected, i'm always just a friend to all guys. I hate this becausse i just feel as if nobody wants me. I got seriously rejected a few months ago and that triggered my depression and i have panic attacks alot now and am very paranoid about everything all because i feel so alone and dont think i can take anymore rejection. i have my friends and family but dont tell them becaus they think i'm exagerating and dont understand. i'd be so grateful for any advice
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http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/love-after-love/
Be more relaxed, don't put THAT much weight into getting together with someone and never play all your trump cards at once. That way you don't face so much disappointment (hoping and wishing is the easiest way to diasappointment btw.) and chances are higher someone wants to be with you. Unless you are really fat or hideous, then I just don't know.
I thought that was really good advice... until i read the last bit and i just LOL'd
sometimes, if you try too hard, it turns people away,especially men.
be yourself, realize sometimes rejection will happen, doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you, it's just not the right person.
and like yourself, if you don't like you, no one else will either.
you are valuable, and someone is going to be so glad they found you it will take their breath away..just be patient
However advice I always give people when in my situration is this, every rejection you recieve, the closer you are to finding the right person. Dont let a rejection slow you down, as long as you have your friends then you are loved.
Kinda contradicting myself arent I :P
Post of the week.
Its the truth. Nobody will love you more then your friends. They go through everything with you and are always there for support