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hi... as i write this i am close to tears nat now considering moving to adlington i rearlly dont know what to do... i have wrote her a letter but have not given it to her yet because everyone is telling me not to... im so confused :crying: i was also thinking of putting a song on her mp3 without her realising it its a lovely song at this very moment she is talking to my mum about moving... i have now got tears streming down my cheek please help...im geting angrey she dosent realise how much i love her as a friend im getting so sick of her talking about this here's the letter i wrote...
Dear nat..
i dont know how to say this but im finding it rearlly hard dealing with you and uncle gary splitting up.
as you know one of the main problems i have is people leaving me and i find it rearlly hard to deal with it. if you go this is your decision and i will miss you.
im sorry nat but i dont know how else to handle this so i shall say my goodbye.
im so so sorry but i just need time to used to you considering moving.
i dont want to lose you but if your serious about moving then do it .
ava
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Dear nat..
i dont know how to say this but im finding it rearlly hard dealing with you and uncle gary splitting up.
as you know one of the main problems i have is people leaving me and i find it rearlly hard to deal with it. if you go this is your decision and i will miss you.
im sorry nat but i dont know how else to handle this so i shall say my goodbye.
im so so sorry but i just need time to used to you considering moving.
i dont want to lose you but if your serious about moving then do it .
ava
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I don't see what's so bad about you giving the letter to someone to express how you're feeling, especially if you're not comfortable telling them..
I know how hard it can be having someone leave who means so much to you, my Ex is in the process of moving out and my family is giving her all the support they can without even asking me how i'm feeling about the break up. All i hear every day is "Oh, we've going to her house to move this for her, drop this off, pick this up" blah blah.. i know it's not easy.
Good luck x
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This is bad and incredibly patronising -
Don't put any blame on people for their decisions.
My best friend is moving to America... and another best friend lives in Portugal... and I know how upset people get when
A) They have to leave
There friends wont accept it.
Just think how you'd feel if you wanted someone to accept your choices, and they couldn't. Yes you will be upset, and so will she, but show her that you love her by accepting her choice.
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dear natalie
i dont know how to say this but im finding it rearlly hard dealing with you and uncle gary splitng up. as you know one of the main problems i have is people leaving i find it rearlly hard to deal with i will miss you but not as much as im missing you now as i write this...im sorry but i do not know how else to handle this so i will say my goodbye.
im sorry please tell lana i will miss her i felt i could trust you and i did and you were always there for me when i needed you the most i still love and i always will but i just can not see you anymore as it hurts me so much i feel like we have grown apart since my illness.
so these are my final words
goodbye natalie
ava
so... how does that sound better or worse??????:chin:
Does she still want to stay in touch with you, other people ?
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