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Should I date him?
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Hi, I have just started a new job and theres a guy there who has made it really obvious he likes me. He hasn't actually said it straight but with subtle hints and compliments. He says things like 'I wonder if I will be married and have kids by im ... (age)' to me. Invites me to his and has been to mine a few times. He asks if I would like to go to places with him and texts and talks on MSN regualry.
I really like him as a friend, hes kind and caring. Something is telling me to give it a go, however he is not the most socialable person, he kinds of works constantly, however he does sometimes go out with his male friends. However, on the other hand a lady in his life could change this?
What do you think, as if it doesn't work, we work together?!
I really like him as a friend, hes kind and caring. Something is telling me to give it a go, however he is not the most socialable person, he kinds of works constantly, however he does sometimes go out with his male friends. However, on the other hand a lady in his life could change this?
What do you think, as if it doesn't work, we work together?!
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If you don't plan to have anything going with him you should carefully break it to him, in my opinion. It sucks if you are working on a hopeless cause and nobody's telling you it's futile.
good luck.
go for it remember to use a condom!
you never know where it will lead
in the hope that what comes around goes around, i say absolutely go for it *crosses fingers*