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Pregnancey

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
well i dont know what else to do...me and my partner have been trying for a baby for ages and still nothing!!.

does anyone know what to do?? besides sex??.

it gets me mad people that dont try for a baby or have a one night stand manage to get pregnant straight away but people that do try find it really difficult!

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    How long is 'ages'? It can take a while!

    You're only young, so the guidelines are if you've been trying 2 years and no joy, you should go to the docs and they can investigate further.

    If it's only been a few months, that's normal. Just keep trying and cross fingers!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    How long have you been trying?
    Sex every other day is better than every day and also living a healthy lifestyle....both of you.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    we have been tryin for a year. we dont have sex every day we have it every other day..
    and thank you
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Tweety wrote: »
    Sex every other day is better than every day

    Not any more: http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/8125934.stm :yippe:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Perhaps it was fluke with us then as daily didn't work but after months or trying we did every other day and hey presto i was preg.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Aye, you can read all the studies in the world, but I think in the end it all comes down to right time, right place, large chunk of luck :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah. I think relaxing is a big part of it too.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Tweety wrote: »
    Yeah. I think relaxing is a big part of it too.

    :yes:

    Also think it's important to have fun sex, not just monotonous babymaking sex. Can't hurt, in any case, can it? :thumb:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    doggy style, then bum up in the air and head down on all fours for 20mins...got me pregola TWICE! Knowing when you ovulate helps with this one as it does get tiring

    Disclaimer: I DO NOT take responsibility for any cold bums! :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Amira wrote: »
    doggy style, then bum up in the air and head down on all fours for 20mins...got me pregola TWICE! Knowing when you ovulate helps with this one as it does get tiring

    Disclaimer: I DO NOT take responsibility for any cold bums! :p

    You should write a book or something :p

    Does it specifically have to be doggy and bum in the air? Could you go for variations on a theme, like missionary followed by a 20 min handstand?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Olive wrote: »
    You should write a book or something :p

    Does it specifically have to be doggy and bum in the air? Could you go for variations on a theme, like missionary followed by a 20 min handstand?

    Well, we went for minimal movement so as not to lose anything. But why not, if you enjoy doing headstands for 20mins who am I to stop you :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You have financial worries and worries about where you're going to be living. It's not a good time to be getting pregnant and if you're anxious and worried it really affects your ability to conceive.

    In any month you have about a 20% chance of getting pregnant, if memory serves me right, even if you do everything right. It might be worth making a doctor's appointment if you're worried.

    You'll get pregnant when it's most inconvenient, don't worry!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well i dont know what else to do...me and my partner have been trying for a baby for ages and still nothing!!.

    does anyone know what to do?? besides sex??.

    You have to have sex to make a baby, cuddles just don't have the same effect :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey hiddenxxsecrets :)

    You've had some great words of wisdom, all we would add is to signpost you to the 'trying for a baby' page on Thesite - it may help you a little.

    Good luck - :thumb:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    to kirmit..we now have no financal or living worries its all been sorted so really we have no worries wat so eva now :D...which i am sooo pleased about. The only worry i have is about getting pregnant.

    thank you all for your help
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