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how long before sex....
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hey
im just wondering how long should people be together before they start having sex..
cuz i dont want to rush into anything but then again it feels right even if it has only been a month...
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im just wondering how long should people be together before they start having sex..
cuz i dont want to rush into anything but then again it feels right even if it has only been a month...
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that's your answer.
From your user name I take it you're only 16, or possibly 15, and I'm guessing this would be your first time? If it feels right, then go for it (safely of course - no love without a glove remember). But if you have to ask if you're ready, it's possible you're not. Take your time, there's no hurry. And then when you no longer have to wonder whether you should or not, go for it!
If you both feel the same way then you can go for it. But do it out of love and make sure you are both ready for it and that you both agree to have sex coz it would be selfishness if one is not ready yet.
Only problem with me is she doesnt know im a virgin, and doesnt know why im not ready etc =/