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Do you give an opinion or be walked over
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Hi i just want to know should you be allowed to have an opinion? I have been treated pretty shitty by my friend recently ie been dumped as they have a new partner. I felt used tbh and finally snapped after months of not bothering and said a few home truths.... my mom says u should keep your opinions to yourself and that she personally wouldn’t have said anything.
So do u keep shut and be treated like crap or tell them what u think and have them make out you're in the wrong
So do u keep shut and be treated like crap or tell them what u think and have them make out you're in the wrong
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The blatant obvious answer is yes. It is not always wise to always speak them out, however.
I'm with your mom here (tee hee). You can gain nothing out of 'snapping' at your friend who made an 'illogical' decision: you don't dump friends for partners. You might shift the contact back a few gears, but you don't crap on them. Having that said, she does obviously not care enough for you, so "speaking sense" into her will not achieve much, will it?
Nothings changed, you are still treated like crap, you've shown weakness that you are really bothered by this and kinda made a tit out of yourself, so: Always have opinions, but don't always blurt them out.
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