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Is it wrong?
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Is it wrong tht the only way i can cum when fucking my girlfriend, is to think of her fucking other men and being a slut. Thts my turn on and i cant get off unless i imagine her doing all this shit while we are fucking.
Am i fucked up or is this normal?
Am i fucked up or is this normal?
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It's normal to have fantasies while having sex.
There is a good article here :-
http://www.nhs.uk/chq/Pages/1688.aspx?CategoryID=118&SubCategoryID=119
By not getting the better of you I mean if this is the only way you can get off, and you sense yourself crossing some kind of line, you should take a break from sex. For a week or two don't fuck, don't even masturbate. My problem was the opposite of yours (you're probably submissive btw, but you don't need to dwell on that), I was too dominant. It got to the point where my fairly (sexually) submissive girlfriend started to feel uncomfortable with some of the stuff we were doing so I said "Right, no more sex for three weeks." Forbidden fruit worked it's magic, four days later I was making love to her like a pleb and not wanting anything else. It wasn't like repressing an urge either, it was like taking a break from drugs to lower my tolerance.
I say if you're worried try to fix this, but right now it's just a fantasy and fantasies are harmless.