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Am I obligated?
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So I've been dating this guy for almost 6 months and I really think he is the one for me. Recently, I've let him finger me and DUH it's amazing, but I feel somewhat obligated to give him a handjob. That would be fine if I knew what I was doing exactly, what can I say, I'm a newbie at all of this. Am I crazy to think that or is he waiting on me? If so, I need some advice/tips/hints, anything!
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The best way to get him to show you how to do it. Get him to hold your hand when you first start, he's the only person who can show you what he likes. Some men like being stroked hard, some like it gentle, some fast, some slow.
As for tips, I'd say start off slow and respond to his reactions. He's more than likely going to say, bit harder, bit slower etc so just enjoy it and dont worry about technique.
Anyway, OP, ask him to let you watch him for a while (he'll find that very horny) and observe how he does it ... then copy him and listen to any additional guidance he gives you (i.e "Faster!" .... "slower!" ...... "slower!" ... "faster!" ..... "Iloveyoumnggghhnnnngn" ..... "Fnnnneeeeew!" ..... "I'm c'c'cumming!" ... "gjfigruigfghviuhsviuhasriuvsu!!!"
Success! :thumb:
like others said, ask him how he likes it and let him guide you through.