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New to having sex and need help balancing myself.
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Hi Guys
I am currently in a relationship with my boyfriend and I need help in keeping my balance when he goes down on me...
Since I have such fragile hands I can't keep my balance for too long when he does me behind and after a while my arms ache and I need to brace myself which I can't seem to do.
So do you have any tips on how I can endure being done in the back, such as a position I can do so that I can recieve it and not get a stuff body for a few moments while in sexual intercourse?
I am currently in a relationship with my boyfriend and I need help in keeping my balance when he goes down on me...
Since I have such fragile hands I can't keep my balance for too long when he does me behind and after a while my arms ache and I need to brace myself which I can't seem to do.
So do you have any tips on how I can endure being done in the back, such as a position I can do so that I can recieve it and not get a stuff body for a few moments while in sexual intercourse?
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My boyfriend only likes doing it on his bed since it gives his body better posture, so do you have any tips on how I can endure it better on the bed. There are pillows but putting my head on them makes my neck sore is their any type of way I can do to keep my neck and head braced tightely?
kneel on your knees and then put your arms flat on the bed and arch your back- also great when you have people in the house cos you can bite into the duvet or scream into it...
Thanks I will try that, also about the arms part is their any sort of position I can use them to hold my head while it is being pushed against the pillow?
Sorry I don't have any tips. I just usually let him do all the hard work!
(This doesn't mean that you shouldn't ever do something you aren't keen on that he really likes, as long as he will do the same for you too. I', not keen on letting Mike cum in my mouth, but I do that occasionally in return for him doing thing I really like).