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Sex Hurting Him?
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When me and my boyfriend have sex it hurts him when hes going in. I'm on the pill so we dont use condoms. Normally once we get into the act everythings fine, but starting off can be really painful for him, will lube help any?
Is there any difference between the big brands like KY and like boots own stuff or whatever?
Is there any difference between the big brands like KY and like boots own stuff or whatever?
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Lubrication jellys do differ. Some are more sticky than others, some are more slippery etc. It's a matter of personal preference.
Has this problem only occured since you've been on the pill?
i've been on the pill for about two years now, so its unlikely to be the problem
A relationship without communication is not a 'relationship'. You need to get him to tell you what's wrong.
Then I would guess its him and not you.
Communication is especially important in any sexual relationship. I am happy that my BF and I both like to communicate alot I guess, even though we have only been seeing eachother for 3.5 Months and sexually for the last 2 Months.
my sexual encounters would have been a lot less exciting/more painful/less passionate/more frustrating if it wouldn't for this lovely substance!
"wet stuff" is my favourite lube