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Had A Bad Day
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Not Been The Best Off Days My Dad Had Argument with His New Girfriend he wont tell me why they had a argument i am really worried bout him Cuz he was saying 2 a mate off mine that he wanted 2 kill him self cuz he is thinking that me and nikki dont care bout him
Wat Can I Do Cuz My dad Will wont talk 2 me
Well I have Onli Just started 2 talk him atfer soo Long Being in Care
I Dont Know Wat 2 Do Now
Wat Can I Do Cuz My dad Will wont talk 2 me
Well I have Onli Just started 2 talk him atfer soo Long Being in Care
I Dont Know Wat 2 Do Now
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I Have Tried 2 Tell him that i love him but he thinks that i Dont I Dont Know Wat 2 Do Anymore
Wb
:yes: thats a good idea .Just give him time and he will open up
Ok But I Have Tried And Every time he gets like this he just shuts himself away from everyone well i ask him wat the matter is and he like it dont matter
Well I Dont No wat 2 do cuz i have only started talking two him after 4 yrs off not talking 2 him
have you seen a counsellor at all?
ok then Well i tbh if my dads keeps doing this my self harming could get worse well i have seem one b4 cuz i was feeling sudical and i wanted 2 od and stuff
I Have Seen counsellor at college cuz i getting bullied and stuff Well i think i am just beyond help
I think it might be good to go back and see if you can talk to your school counciller, just to let it all out and tell her how your dads moods are affecting you (cuz i know it gets right to you and makes you feel horrible)
You need to realise that you can take control of this- YOU are an amazing person and you have the strength to carry on. It's crappy that your Dad is feeling down, but in order to help him, you need to be in a good state of mind!
Well i cant do that
cuz i dont go school anymore
Well i aint really amazing cuz i self harm and i try 2 od sometimes
well i have tried 2 but i cant tbh
I have said 2 my dad that he needs 2 talk more but he wont listen
when i was at dads flat him and nikki was having a go at each other and picked up a knife i thought he was gunna kill him self
You are amazing,because even though it is really hard, you are dealing with this stuff life as thrown at you, and you are seeking help which is more than most people faced with this would do.
Is there any way you could have a chat with Nikki? tell her that this is upetting you?
But i guess that will have 2 get ova it
thanks but i dont think thats true
I dont no as i said i dont really like talking 2 ppl bout things that bothering me
maybe your friends might be good to talk to? just anyone so you dont have to keep your feelings all inside.
I cant really tell any1 thats why i am writing stuff on here
Yes but i cant really cuz the mate that i can talk 2 has her own issues dont really wat 2 worry her anymore then she can cope with
and *hugs* i know they wont do much but i hate when ppl are sad!
well i will try and talk 2 ppl but i dont think it will work tbh
i have tried but it dont work dont no wat 2 do anymore got anything 2 suggest?
Ok well cant really talk 2 my close mate she has got 2 many problems cant give her anything 2 worry about
Cant really do that i dont no wat 2 do anymore i wanna just curl up and hope all this will go away