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hi im new to this forum and looking for some help.
im 18 and have been with my boyfriend for a year now and am very much in love with him. however for the last 6 months i have completely lost all desire for sex and its causing problems in my relationship.
my boyfriend is very understanding and is cool to wait but i feel very inadequate as our relationship was very sexual before hand. whenever we do try and have sex i just get very worried and uncomfortable and have to tell him to stop.
any advice would be greatly appreciated. thanks
im 18 and have been with my boyfriend for a year now and am very much in love with him. however for the last 6 months i have completely lost all desire for sex and its causing problems in my relationship.
my boyfriend is very understanding and is cool to wait but i feel very inadequate as our relationship was very sexual before hand. whenever we do try and have sex i just get very worried and uncomfortable and have to tell him to stop.
any advice would be greatly appreciated. thanks
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it is usual for the sex to reduce a bit as the relationship gets older, and the honeymoon period differs from couple to couple so don't stress too much as this can make it worse as you are putting pressure on yourself to feel sexy.
well previous to this relationship i was with someone for 3 years and never had a problem so i dont think its down to a honeymoon period. i did have to go off the pill due to mood swings but that was months ago. so im not sure. i have had a tough time this year with family and stuff but i dont really understand how that could affect me and my boyfriend.
so what do you think i should do, wait for the stress to pass? i cant see that happening anytime soon.
no, im using condoms instead.