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So confused...
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I cant decide whether to stay with this girl or not.
We met a few weeks ago in a club,have been texting and Ive been round hers a few times.
I just cant make my mind up!!
Shes really lovely and shes already said she likes me.
Im not even sure whats putting me off,well,she does have a one year old boy.Thats no problem to me at all really apart from the fact that I wasnt planning to have any kids until a lot later in my life.Im totally unsure what to do around kids!!
Maybe Im selfish in that if Im with a woman I want her all to myself or maybe Im trying to be too much of a "player" and making excuses for not going with her.There is this other girl Id like to hook up with and Im only 21,so I kind of feel I havent had my fill of women yet.
I dont know,I need to vent.
The only thing I do know is that I actually like her differently to other girls Ive been with.
Grrrr
We met a few weeks ago in a club,have been texting and Ive been round hers a few times.
I just cant make my mind up!!
Shes really lovely and shes already said she likes me.
Im not even sure whats putting me off,well,she does have a one year old boy.Thats no problem to me at all really apart from the fact that I wasnt planning to have any kids until a lot later in my life.Im totally unsure what to do around kids!!
Maybe Im selfish in that if Im with a woman I want her all to myself or maybe Im trying to be too much of a "player" and making excuses for not going with her.There is this other girl Id like to hook up with and Im only 21,so I kind of feel I havent had my fill of women yet.
I dont know,I need to vent.
The only thing I do know is that I actually like her differently to other girls Ive been with.
Grrrr
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