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im soo confussed with boys :(
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hiaaa, 
i met this boy few months ago but i was going out with someone so i couldnt do anything. i had to end things with my boyfriend cause of other reasons so then i was single and it was great but i wanted a boyfriends again. so met a few people and they were nice but they just used me. but back to the boy i met at the beginning well recently been texting him and we were just kissing but not going out or anything, but then he asked me out eventually, cause i really liked him. so i went on bebo n he said he would change it to hes in a realationship put me in his friends but he didnt, so i decided maybe if i do it he'l' do it then, but he still didnt. i was texting him bout it and he was like yeah i really want to go out with you n stuff, the next day he didnt seem really interested by the sounds of his texts although he still kept texting back. so then there was a party n i couldnt go but then later that night my friend text me saying he is kissing some other girl who im friends with, so she went up spoke to him. i dunno what it is but i only attract absolute idiots n i let them walk all over me, i hate confronting people cause i always give in, what should i say to him n how do get a decent boy, n keep them here. i really liked him but i feel like an idiot now, why doesnt he like me, but he did the other night? 
any advice aprecciated
xxxxx
i met this boy few months ago but i was going out with someone so i couldnt do anything. i had to end things with my boyfriend cause of other reasons so then i was single and it was great but i wanted a boyfriends again. so met a few people and they were nice but they just used me. but back to the boy i met at the beginning well recently been texting him and we were just kissing but not going out or anything, but then he asked me out eventually, cause i really liked him. so i went on bebo n he said he would change it to hes in a realationship put me in his friends but he didnt, so i decided maybe if i do it he'l' do it then, but he still didnt. i was texting him bout it and he was like yeah i really want to go out with you n stuff, the next day he didnt seem really interested by the sounds of his texts although he still kept texting back. so then there was a party n i couldnt go but then later that night my friend text me saying he is kissing some other girl who im friends with, so she went up spoke to him. i dunno what it is but i only attract absolute idiots n i let them walk all over me, i hate confronting people cause i always give in, what should i say to him n how do get a decent boy, n keep them here. i really liked him but i feel like an idiot now, why doesnt he like me, but he did the other night? any advice aprecciated
xxxxx
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that special guy will come along
was it so important that he put you on bebo?
also how old are you if you dont mind us all knowing, if your in school still theres plenty of time to find someone!
Don't feel put out though. There are plenty of people out there willing to change their Bebo/facebook/myspace etc. status.
hes a complete and utter waste of time, i used to get caught up in things like that and it never ended good. he isnt worth it to go and do that with your mate, and if she knew you liked him then niether is she.
maybe if you stop looking for a guy then maybe the guy will come to you.
thats what advice i gave myself and it made my luck change from all the dickhead guys to one amazing guy
good luck x
find someone else.
/e: and why on earth is that bebo thing so important, "omg, it sez he is in rlship. ohmigod. i am his girlfriend!" truly a problem of the 21st century. Who cares about shit like that? hell I'm changing my online relationship status to "in a relationship" too, if it helps me to get it on with girls. pff