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Just wondered what people's thoughts on this are?
I bumped into an ex recently whilst out. He made a big effort to talk to all of my friends but ignored me. it made me feel terrible to be honest - really singled out. it was quite a while ago, but i realised i obviously am not over it, just don't know why someone would do that. i went and talked to him and he responded a little bit, now i feel terrible and wished i hadn't been so nice.
I bumped into an ex recently whilst out. He made a big effort to talk to all of my friends but ignored me. it made me feel terrible to be honest - really singled out. it was quite a while ago, but i realised i obviously am not over it, just don't know why someone would do that. i went and talked to him and he responded a little bit, now i feel terrible and wished i hadn't been so nice.
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how did you split? did you give him a reason to blank you?
Don't bother too much and try to get over it.
The thing is he didn't get hurt at all. He ended it with me because he was still in love with someone else. I was the one who was hurt.
That doesn't mean he wasn't upset about the whole situation.
As Mr Angel Man says, it's not all black and white.