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Learning to talk dirty
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I've never been very good at dirty talk, I was always more experienced than my exes so it never really came up. However my new guy is totally into it.
I can text dirty pretty well, but whenever he wants me to talk dirty my mind goes blank. At least texting I can think about it etc but how do you just say it without going blank.
I thought about preparing beforehand but I'm not any good at learning lines etc and I don't want it to sound forced. I know my bf wouldn't make me do it if I didn't feel comfortable but I really want to do something nice for him.
Advice please?
I can text dirty pretty well, but whenever he wants me to talk dirty my mind goes blank. At least texting I can think about it etc but how do you just say it without going blank.
I thought about preparing beforehand but I'm not any good at learning lines etc and I don't want it to sound forced. I know my bf wouldn't make me do it if I didn't feel comfortable but I really want to do something nice for him.
Advice please?
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Try and detach yourself from who you normally are, and be a 'character' that happens to talk dirty. Then whatever you say, isn't the REAL you but this alter ego.
Now show us yer tits, yer sex-craved whore!
(See? That's not the REAL me!)
I was over at the gfs and said you are a dirty dirty girl, look at all filth everywhere. There is so much dust on the vanity and your smelly, worn clothes are everywhere. Your windows are just so cloudy and it reeks in here.
She threw me out, i mean wtf?
:yes: I just feel like a bit of an idiot doing it so dont do it.
Me thinks a word needs to be swapped here Teagan
Sometimes i say something and think why did i just say that. If she was to talk dirty back i dont think id like it......unless its something like oooooo your sooo big lol
Maybe you should try that 1
read delta of venus by anais nin...you'll know how to talk dirty after that...
No, that's the real you! Your always on about sex, straight or gay
I am? I bad!
At the moment my boyfriend really gets off on the dirty talk too, he likes it when I tell him how much I want him to ejaculate into my 'area' and how much I wish we lived together so that he could make me scream...
I like to whisper it in his ear but say it loud enough, its awkward when you have to repeat yourself.