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do i have rights?
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My ex gf is pregnant with our first child. We broke up about 2 months ago due to me being a loser....... But now she wont give our baby my last name and wont let me see her, or go with her to doc appointments or anything like that even tho i want to go. She has already picked the full name of the child and its her last name. If anybody knows, do i have rights to have the last name as mine? and if she does put the last name as hers, am i still going to get parental rights?
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When you say its due to you being a loser, what do you mean? Is there any way you can change your behaviour so she wants to co-parent more?
You'll probably have the right to see the child at weekends, but I'm not sure how much say you'll have over major decisions.I agree with Suzycreamcheese though, what can do you to make her want you involved?