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Slept with him and now not heard from him :-(
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Hi guys,
I've been seeing this guy "on and off" for a while, hadn't heard much from him, but then cut a long story short I ended up round at his on Boxing Day Night and we slept together. It was good, really good :thumb: but now I'm feeling like crap because I haven't heard from him. To be fair I haven't got in touch with him, but do I get in touch? My best mate said I shouldn't, but I just don't know! I can't stop thinking about him and I have to admit I am totally lovesick. I've hardly eaten since Friday and I've lost almost 1/2 a stone :yippe: but still, it's not healthy is it?
Help Me :crying:
I've been seeing this guy "on and off" for a while, hadn't heard much from him, but then cut a long story short I ended up round at his on Boxing Day Night and we slept together. It was good, really good :thumb: but now I'm feeling like crap because I haven't heard from him. To be fair I haven't got in touch with him, but do I get in touch? My best mate said I shouldn't, but I just don't know! I can't stop thinking about him and I have to admit I am totally lovesick. I've hardly eaten since Friday and I've lost almost 1/2 a stone :yippe: but still, it's not healthy is it?
Help Me :crying:
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Can't you just send a txt asking how he is/what he's up to? Or maybe if he fancies going out for a drink somewhere? You're bound to get some idea if he's interested that way.
Just send him a text saying do you fancy going to lunch or something.
Yeah, but you can understand why I would like to hear from him right? Jeez, do guys ever get like this over girls? :chin:
I know I sound completely pathetic, lol, if it were someone else this was happening to I'd be like "get over yourself girl!". But these things are easier said than done, especially when you like a person.
I suppose it is really hard to tell right now how he feels. I suppose also if he wanted to get in touch he would and I don't want that to sound to harsh. You have both now had the sex part so if there are feelings from his end I am sure he will be in touch. I understand to how hard it can be to wait for an answer. Maybe just be patient for a couple more days and see what happens? There is no harm in you contacting him either if it puts your mind at rest over it all and at least you will be able to know for sure what happened really meant for him but give him space to.
Good luck with what happens and let us know if you want.
Happy New year