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2nd date ideas
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Ok...how I've got to 26 and not actually done the whole dating thing I don't know but I'm really stuck for ideas.
1st date he chose and we went to a Mexican restaurant, followed by cinema and he was driving so I invited him in for a drink when he dropped me home...6 hours later we actually stopped talking and he went home. We had a really good evening and I do really like this guy, but want to take it reasonably slowly as I'm still feeling a little burnt from my last rel.
Anyway, he's left it in my hands to decide what we do as a 2nd date. I want something that's light hearted and going to lead to possibly touchy flirty situations as I seem to have gone shy with lack of practice and he's fairly shy. He's 31 and fairly mature as well so needs to be something reasonably sensible.
So has anyone got any ideas to help me out?
1st date he chose and we went to a Mexican restaurant, followed by cinema and he was driving so I invited him in for a drink when he dropped me home...6 hours later we actually stopped talking and he went home. We had a really good evening and I do really like this guy, but want to take it reasonably slowly as I'm still feeling a little burnt from my last rel.
Anyway, he's left it in my hands to decide what we do as a 2nd date. I want something that's light hearted and going to lead to possibly touchy flirty situations as I seem to have gone shy with lack of practice and he's fairly shy. He's 31 and fairly mature as well so needs to be something reasonably sensible.
So has anyone got any ideas to help me out?
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Bowling, as suggested, could be a winner.
:yes: And maybe you'll get the chance to have less space between the two of you as you both struggle to show each other the perfect throw
Besides that, all kind of activities that'll let you do things together while still being able are appropriate if you ask me. Pool, table tennis, other games. And try to find out what he likes beforehand, perhaps you're in touch with someone who knows him well?
He did suggest last night getting out for a walk in the afternoon and then seeing where the mood took us later weather dependent. Otherwise I wondered about something like an aquarium where there's lots to look at and discuss.
Me too, I reckon that'd be a really fun, different date
So does he...it's all arranged.