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Velcro Newsletter wrote: »
My God, some of the people on this board, I'll be glad to get back to Digital Spy. :banghead:
Don't be so BLOODY STUPID woman!
What's clearly happening here is that you've had a fling with your friend, and you're all over the place because of that. I bet if she suggested you leap off the roof like Thelma and Louise you'd consider doing that as well. Anyway, you say you're nearly 29, that's probly too old for that sorta ting anyway, the sleaze bags that get involved in this probably want barely legal poppits and you'd hardly get any work.
I know times are hard, but to even consider this you'd have to be a complete idiot. There's half a dozen women in Ipswich who haven't got any choices any more.
queserasera wrote: »
can you be an escort without having intercourse? is that line of work easier to get into?
Sarah1979 wrote: »
No I'm not planning on doing it forever, that's if I do do it, and I'm becoming very aware of the risks, but my friend's self esteem and confidence has increased from doing it. And she wouldn't be trying to 'get me into it' if I hadn't shown an interest in the first place. When she told me what she'd been doing the last six months, she didn't know how I'd react and at first I was shocked, but I was more and more intrigued that we spent the weekend talking of little else, because I kept asking her. And though I was a bit drunk, by the end of the night I was kind of encouraging her to come on to me, so I think she just read between the lines that I was waiting to be asked about becoming an escort, as long as she was sure I'd be okay with it.
I was scared of asking her straight out 'can I be an escort too' in case she was like 'there's no way you could do this' so mayb what happened between us in the end was a little bit of me trying to prove something to her and to myself.
I did read something on that saafe site that there are no friends in this business and someone who you think is your friend is probably doing it for their own motives, which scares me a little, given our friendship at work before, it's just one of the things I've got to work through in my own head.
I'm not naturally promiscuous, I've had a couple of serious boyfriends and a couple of flings, so even I'm not sure how I'll react if I go deeper into this, and if I'd never met Laura again, or I'd met her and she'd carried on with telling me she was a PA, I don't think it would have crossed my mind at all. But the fact that it has crossed my mind means I have to satisfy myself about it as an opportunity and don't regret what I do in the end.