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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just to say - I think this is a difficult balance - but we really can't allow thinks to websites actually promoting and providing escort services. We do have to be careful what we link to at times - and that's just pushing it to far.

    And I have to say - providing a lin to a website used by punters to someone who is trying to decide if they want to enter the sex industry isn't really going provide the balanced perspective they would need.

    So understand you might be trying to help, but think we'll leave it with the one website providing information and support to sex workers that's already in the thread.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't ever feel you are going to be forced to do things you don't want sexually just because a client is paying.

    You still have the right to say no. Establish the boundaries before the session. Of course that may to some extent limit your clientele but at least it is something you will be happy and comfortable with.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No disrespect but my mate runs one of the biggest escort agencies in my area and what you said in your post is utter, utter shit.
    My God, some of the people on this board, I'll be glad to get back to Digital Spy. :banghead:

    Don't be so BLOODY STUPID woman!

    What's clearly happening here is that you've had a fling with your friend, and you're all over the place because of that. I bet if she suggested you leap off the roof like Thelma and Louise you'd consider doing that as well. Anyway, you say you're nearly 29, that's probly too old for that sorta ting anyway, the sleaze bags that get involved in this probably want barely legal poppits and you'd hardly get any work.

    I know times are hard, but to even consider this you'd have to be a complete idiot. There's half a dozen women in Ipswich who haven't got any choices any more.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    @Thread Starter

    With all due respect, lady, i'd advise you not to go for that. People here are making it look like that all you have to do is to date and go to bed with some nice lookin businessmen or women ....

    For God's sake ... if you for some reasons have landed into wrong profession (i respect all prostitutes and escorts, but still .. ) it doesn't mean you start to encourage others into it. You'd be putting so much on stake, relationships, peace of mind, health, security, self esteem and so much more. And while the golden days won't last long, the consequencies can last for a whole lifetime. Those who are trying to paint the profession of escort into something superior should keep in mind that even some of the top supermodels are not able to take it for long (casting couch, sexual favors, etc) and many of them ended on drugs or even suicide in some cases. I can fully understand your conditions, and how hard it is to see someone doing good after he/she has opted for some wrong path, but then you can see someone robbing and think wow he's robbing the rich ones, not that bad really. Why don't i do it? The thing is you may end up murdering someone in panic, getting caught and ending behind bars, etc.

    Something that's wrong is wrong, no matter how good your friend seems to do for the time being. Instead of following her into it, try to get her out if it, lovingly. I wish you all the best, and i pray that God will give you the courage and a better job really soon. Why don't you try applying somewhere else or get an additional degree ... look around. There must be some way out other then becoming an escort.

    Love, respect and best of wishes. :)
    Your well wisher.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    can you be an escort without having intercourse? is that line of work easier to get into?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    can you be an escort without having intercourse? is that line of work easier to get into?

    I doubt it, theyre paying for your service, which isnt to enjoy a nice meal n drink wine, they wanna fuck :P
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This thread was really interesting. How frustrating that Sarah never updated, I wonder whether she made the move in the end?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yes I want to know what happened with the OP. And if she could provide a link to the website her friend was working from.

    I am very interested in getting into escorting in London as well.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hi sarah
    Sarah1979 wrote: »
    No I'm not planning on doing it forever, that's if I do do it, and I'm becoming very aware of the risks, but my friend's self esteem and confidence has increased from doing it. And she wouldn't be trying to 'get me into it' if I hadn't shown an interest in the first place. When she told me what she'd been doing the last six months, she didn't know how I'd react and at first I was shocked, but I was more and more intrigued that we spent the weekend talking of little else, because I kept asking her. And though I was a bit drunk, by the end of the night I was kind of encouraging her to come on to me, so I think she just read between the lines that I was waiting to be asked about becoming an escort, as long as she was sure I'd be okay with it.

    I was scared of asking her straight out 'can I be an escort too' in case she was like 'there's no way you could do this' so mayb what happened between us in the end was a little bit of me trying to prove something to her and to myself.

    I did read something on that saafe site that there are no friends in this business and someone who you think is your friend is probably doing it for their own motives, which scares me a little, given our friendship at work before, it's just one of the things I've got to work through in my own head.

    I'm not naturally promiscuous, I've had a couple of serious boyfriends and a couple of flings, so even I'm not sure how I'll react if I go deeper into this, and if I'd never met Laura again, or I'd met her and she'd carried on with telling me she was a PA, I don't think it would have crossed my mind at all. But the fact that it has crossed my mind means I have to satisfy myself about it as an opportunity and don't regret what I do in the end.

    i myself was thinking of becoming a escort,i was wondering which agency your friend is with as there are just so many to choose from. thanks x
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey jodi - this thread is from 2009 - worth checking the date before you post. Feel free to start a new thread if you're looking for advice. :)
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