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newly single. sadly.
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I haven't really got any friends, and now my boyfriend has fucked off out of my life too. The last time this happened, I went a bit mental. I dropped out of University, was put on antidepressants, started counselling, then moved abroad a bit, now I'm back, I start seeing someone else, I have no degree, I work 12 hours a week stacking shelves, then, 3 months on, BAM - 'I'm not ready, this isn't working..'
I don't know what my point is. I'm terrified to spend another unspecified period of time on my own, not being able to sleep, just crying a lot, sending text messages that are never answered.
I'm not sure I can stand to go it alone again. I'd have killed myself long before now if I had the spine.
I don't know what my point is. I'm terrified to spend another unspecified period of time on my own, not being able to sleep, just crying a lot, sending text messages that are never answered.
I'm not sure I can stand to go it alone again. I'd have killed myself long before now if I had the spine.
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As soon as a new man comes into your life, try to still have a separate life on your own and don't depend too much on him, as this can very easily be the grounds for the break-up (clinginess, etc.) and fucks you up big time when the relationship breaks apart. Break-ups are things everyone has to deal with and some clearly do it better than others. I don't think you do it particularly bad because of your genes or some other stuff. It's learned behavior and a bad one to boot.
So, buckle up and go on with your life, it might be a hard phase, but dwelling over those things has never improved the mood or brought answers for your question...
I don't know if things really are so difficult or I'm just making up excuses. I don't know.
Or, just do the only real sane thing - buy a motorbike. You'll never need friends again .
P.S. Not allowed to drive as my vision is 6 feet tops, and that is with a -26 lens.
I'm up in Wildwood. Feeling quite chilly tonight.
Thesite live chats are really good..i think its great to talk bout random stuff on there...
I think the motorbike thing sounds fun, and gets you out and about and focused on doing something :-)
Motorbike licenses are BRILLIANT! I'm taking mine out for the day tomorrow to see my bestest friend in Wrexham... I'm ashamed to admit I've not seen him for a year.
Keep smiling .
even if i did get my licence, what's the point? I don't really see the point in anything, to be honest.