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Bullying after a thing that happened
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I created a new name because Im to embarrassed to use the one I usually write under since I don’t want some people I know online on this forum know its me. Im a girl and Im 13 and everyone hates me because after a thing that happened and everyone tells me how gross I am and what a baby I am. I need help because I don’t know what to do or say! I have never been popular but never bullied or anything like that before, but now I am.
what happened was that I peed in my pants BUT IT WASNT MY FAULT! please understand!!?? we (me and 4 friends) was going home on the subway after seeing a movie and we got on the subway but on the way home somthing happened and it just stopped between 2 stations! and it stood still for 2 hours and we were stuck in there!! ANd I already had to use the bathroom before it stopped and I had drank a big soda during the movie and when we sat there I had to pee more and more and after maybe 1½ Hour i had to pee so bad I just had to pee no matter what and I tried opening the doors but it was impossible! and I asked my friends to help me but they didnt know what to do! I tried to hold it but i had to pee so bad I couldn’t wait and I just sat there and peed in my pants. and they promised me never to say to anyone but 1 girl told everyone so now EVERYONE knows!!!
Everyone think Im a baby and gross and they say that to me all the time and do really really mean stuff to me…
I just dont know what to say and do? please Help! what can I say to make everyone understand it wasn’t my fault and maybe not to think Im a baby and gross. noone has ever peed their pants since kindergarten so noone understand!!! I know i shouldn’t be peeing my pants when Im 13 and Im really really ashamed of myself, honestly I am!! I can undestand they think Im a baby and gross!! butI just can’t take the bullying any more it hurts too much, I just can’t take it!!
/From a anonymus girl
PLEASE understand and even if everyone thinks Im a baby and gross, please help me anyway and please try to understand that it wasnt my fault! I tried holding it but I had to pee so very bad that i just had to pee no matter what and I just couldnt help peeing in my pants, please understand!
what happened was that I peed in my pants BUT IT WASNT MY FAULT! please understand!!?? we (me and 4 friends) was going home on the subway after seeing a movie and we got on the subway but on the way home somthing happened and it just stopped between 2 stations! and it stood still for 2 hours and we were stuck in there!! ANd I already had to use the bathroom before it stopped and I had drank a big soda during the movie and when we sat there I had to pee more and more and after maybe 1½ Hour i had to pee so bad I just had to pee no matter what and I tried opening the doors but it was impossible! and I asked my friends to help me but they didnt know what to do! I tried to hold it but i had to pee so bad I couldn’t wait and I just sat there and peed in my pants. and they promised me never to say to anyone but 1 girl told everyone so now EVERYONE knows!!!
Everyone think Im a baby and gross and they say that to me all the time and do really really mean stuff to me…
I just dont know what to say and do? please Help! what can I say to make everyone understand it wasn’t my fault and maybe not to think Im a baby and gross. noone has ever peed their pants since kindergarten so noone understand!!! I know i shouldn’t be peeing my pants when Im 13 and Im really really ashamed of myself, honestly I am!! I can undestand they think Im a baby and gross!! butI just can’t take the bullying any more it hurts too much, I just can’t take it!!
/From a anonymus girl
PLEASE understand and even if everyone thinks Im a baby and gross, please help me anyway and please try to understand that it wasnt my fault! I tried holding it but I had to pee so very bad that i just had to pee no matter what and I just couldnt help peeing in my pants, please understand!
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how is it spam?
How on earth did you find that out??? I wouldn't dream of looking something like this up ...
she posted the same topic at roughly the same time on a few different boards.
That doesnt make it spam. It probably means she wants different viewpoints. Ive often posted questions on more than one board
Spam is unsolicted advertising, this isnt that
I'm a member of 3 of them it was posted to, and there's more.
Maybe it's genuine, but there's been weirder things mass posted for unfathomable reasons. There's someone posting all over forums about EMA and disappearing too.
that still doesnt make it spam
Maybe it's just me, but 8 almost simultaneous posts exactly the same claiming they've created a new name and people know them on every forum seems a bit bot-like to me.
The other thing you've got to question is - why are you a member of 8 forums of similar subject matter? I post on a few sites but they are for difference audiences. One is about clubbing, one is about fairgrounds/themeparks and one is about my guild/clan/corporation/whatever thing for World of Warcraft (computer game).
maybe she only has internet access from a library or a netcafé or something or just limited access. I dont think its fair to insist someone is a troll for absolutely no reason other than they posted it in a few places
People say that when rumors occur they simply go when something else interesting happens, so i am sure your story will be replaced by something else soon.
In the meantime, to beat the bullying you are unfortunately experiencing, check out this article. Good luck and remember this site is here and listens to you.
Yeh? Never been on one so just assumed they did like most trains.
Some trains don't have toilets, they stop for 5 minutes at random stations so you can get off, or you can ask the conductor
ive been on loads of trains with no toilets FWIW
:yes: I agree.
Just to say, if people suspect a thread is a hoax then it's really not helpful to post that within the thread, it's best to report something to us and then we can act on it. Cheers.
I'm still unclear how the advice someone would give about being bullied would be different whether the story was extreme or not. Maybe it is fake, maybe it isn't but that doesn't mean the issues that surround the post might not still be true, just in a less extreme way.