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(im not sure if this is the right place to post this or not...)
yesterday my boyfriend and i moved out of his cottage and back to our parents. we are trying to save so that in 6 months we can afford somewhere better and more suited to the baby (the cottage was very small with no heating).
so last night was our first night apart and it was horrible. i couldnt sleep and i just kept crying. and to top it all off he left this morning for his parents other house in wales, for a week. he is refitting their kitchen cos they are renting it out. i was meant to be going too but his parents decided at the last minute that it wasnt suitable for me as its all very unfinished. so i couldnt go.
i dont feel like my parents house is home anymore which is stupid cos i only lived with my boyfriend for 2 months! but since he left last night i have just shut myself in my room and i cant face going downstairs and being with my parents. i honestly feel like im lodging here or something.
i just keep crying over the fact that im 'stuck' here for the next 6 months, not being able to ever go to the cottage again and just missing my boyfriend so much already
i know im being hormonal and if i wasnt pregnant then i wouldnt be taking this so hard but....i just cant stop crying
yesterday my boyfriend and i moved out of his cottage and back to our parents. we are trying to save so that in 6 months we can afford somewhere better and more suited to the baby (the cottage was very small with no heating).
so last night was our first night apart and it was horrible. i couldnt sleep and i just kept crying. and to top it all off he left this morning for his parents other house in wales, for a week. he is refitting their kitchen cos they are renting it out. i was meant to be going too but his parents decided at the last minute that it wasnt suitable for me as its all very unfinished. so i couldnt go.
i dont feel like my parents house is home anymore which is stupid cos i only lived with my boyfriend for 2 months! but since he left last night i have just shut myself in my room and i cant face going downstairs and being with my parents. i honestly feel like im lodging here or something.
i just keep crying over the fact that im 'stuck' here for the next 6 months, not being able to ever go to the cottage again and just missing my boyfriend so much already
i know im being hormonal and if i wasnt pregnant then i wouldnt be taking this so hard but....i just cant stop crying
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i am just going to save every extra penny i have.
im just really stuggling today plus im so tired from not sleeping, i kept reaching for him in the night but obviously he wasnt there
I'm a bit obsessed about finances at the mo'.. Do you have any debts - are they all at as low an interest rate as possible? Have you bought everything for the baby yet? If not, research where you can get it cheapest. Check MSE for deals and discounts and don't buy anything online (or apply for a lower interest credit card) without checking if you can get cashback through Quidco or the like first.
All extra pennies to help you get your own place faster - or have more to spend when you do get it in six months time.
im just really not feeling settled here, hopefully in a few days i will feel better
i think what you have to do is just look forward to having enough money to have a place of your own and being a family together eventually.
i hope you feel better soon, it must be so exciting about to have a baby, and getting a house of your own
i just called him and it was sad to hang up but he had to get back to work after a few minutes cos there is so much to do.
although i am feeling a bit better now cos i booked tickets to go up on the train to join him on wednesday and then come home with him in the car on sunday.
so only 4 more days to get through....i just love him so much.
but yeah you are right, it will be worth it in the end, to be a family and to be together in our own home, i guess i need to just hang onto that thought!
im just clinging to the fact that by wednesday night i will be with him.
i found it very hard to sleep without him again last nite, im having to keep the TV on to soothe me to sleep, i know it will get better once i get used to it but its making it harder to be positive cos im so tired
that is a good idea, a nice stinky work one! im wearing a pair of his boxers and his t-shirt and pyjamas now but my mum washed them so they dont smell of him anymore
its making me feel like he doesnt miss me at all
i think im just not doing well with all the changes this week. first my cat died. then we had to move out and come back home and now my boyfriend is away.
i know it sounds so stupid but i miss the house so much. i miss the neighbours and just everything and i just hate being back at my parents, it doesnt feel like home at all.
ive hardly left the house in 3 days and i just have no energy to do anything apart from stare into space and cry