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Love? Contd.
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The french guy I fell in love with and I have spoken on the phone numerous times since my last thread
( http://vbulletin.thesite.org.uk/showthread.php?t=129122 )
And he said he loved me (:D ) and that he wants to come to bombay next summer. I'm going to france in october in that case (probably). But in the meantime, how do I keep myself occupied? I'm really lonely, and I miss him so much.
I can't focus on anything... I just go out constantly too keep my mind off him, and it's really nonproductive.We speak almost every day, and I pretty much live for those phonecalls now.
Also, how do I know it's love? I can't describe what I feel... but god, I've never felt like this before, so how the hell do I know what it is?
( http://vbulletin.thesite.org.uk/showthread.php?t=129122 )
And he said he loved me (:D ) and that he wants to come to bombay next summer. I'm going to france in october in that case (probably). But in the meantime, how do I keep myself occupied? I'm really lonely, and I miss him so much.
I can't focus on anything... I just go out constantly too keep my mind off him, and it's really nonproductive.We speak almost every day, and I pretty much live for those phonecalls now.
Also, how do I know it's love? I can't describe what I feel... but god, I've never felt like this before, so how the hell do I know what it is?
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Long distance relationships are a strain. Only you will know if yours is going to continue, but your saying you are "pretty much living for those phonecalls now" is not a healthy aspect at all. For what would happen if he dumped you? Don't put everything into meeting this guy again. I'm sorry to sound cynical, I'm not. You need to broaden your horizons.
I would say go and be with people you know in your township, and stick with them. Because otherwise you are putting too much at stake with this guy, for anything could change between now and October.
Poppi
Same here.
When i met my man from Ireland that's exactly how i felt. Living for the phonecall's and visit's and in the mean time i spent time with my mates and my work helped me take my mind off how much i missed him and such like. If you's both want it to work bad enough, it will happen but it's not easy and takes alot of working at.
Good luck and i hope it all work's out for you guy's
*hugs*
If you are missing him, then try writing down the things you like about each other.
Or make a poem that you both like about each other, then everytime you think about him, just read the poem. (like wedding couples have a song)
Worked for someone I know