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bit too rough. . . help ladies??
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heya.
im not a terribly big fan of sharing personal things like this - but seeing as i dont particularly want to talk to my mum about it, and she's the only one round, i thought id enquire here
basically, over the last few nights ive started sleeping with my-now boyfriend for the first time.
and the fact that he is bigger than what i anticipated, and also that we've been a bit 'rough' with each other, has resulted in me feeling a bit (well, a LOT actually) sore down below.
its happened before, but never to this extent - whereby it hurts when im sitting down, lying down and even standing up.
the only thing that seems to help is if i put pressure down there - but i dont think anyone else in the house will be too impressed if i have my hand down at my crotch all day :rolleyes: so im trying not to do that.
does anyone here know of any creams/balms or whatever that will help?? or any solution really!! i cant imagine being like this all day - OR heaven forbid tomorrow at work when im going to be sitting down all day
its driving me nuts!!!
ta
im not a terribly big fan of sharing personal things like this - but seeing as i dont particularly want to talk to my mum about it, and she's the only one round, i thought id enquire here
basically, over the last few nights ive started sleeping with my-now boyfriend for the first time.
and the fact that he is bigger than what i anticipated, and also that we've been a bit 'rough' with each other, has resulted in me feeling a bit (well, a LOT actually) sore down below.
its happened before, but never to this extent - whereby it hurts when im sitting down, lying down and even standing up.
the only thing that seems to help is if i put pressure down there - but i dont think anyone else in the house will be too impressed if i have my hand down at my crotch all day :rolleyes: so im trying not to do that.
does anyone here know of any creams/balms or whatever that will help?? or any solution really!! i cant imagine being like this all day - OR heaven forbid tomorrow at work when im going to be sitting down all day
its driving me nuts!!!
ta
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lots of friction from rough sex can easily trigger it, not to mention the hot weather.
If you dont want to go to the doctor, you can get canesten internal cream over the counter and that tends to work fairly quickly (overnight)
ill most likely try the canesten cream tho, thankyou
If it isnt thrush, then canesten wont do it any harm, but if it is, then it should help.If its really bad though, the normal cream might not be enough
Jammy cow
i bought the canesten like you said and ill see how it goes
i guess if it doesnt work then ill go visit my gp tomorrow i guess!! tho i rather hope i dont have to
if i wasnt so sore then i might be jammy :rolleyes: as it is..
Not a fan of KY, Durex play or something similar is better.