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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Heyy
do guys prefer girls to be shaven down below? does it bother guys much either way??
I have read that most guys do like them smooth.. but surely shaving down below makes the girl look like a little young girl..
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think this was given a good outing here
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you have pubes everywhere ("hairy beaver") its just disgusting, shave it off. My current gf has a naturally thin strip of longish hair which is totally fine.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    tinkler wrote: »
    If you have pubes everywhere ("hairy beaver") its just disgusting, shave it off. My current gf has a naturally thin strip of longish hair which is totally fine.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well everyone is entitled to their own taste but it's a shame that so many people now think that natural = disgusting. Plus it's all so double standards - I bet Tinkler's got pubes everywhere but wouldn't expect to shave them off :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    tinkler wrote: »
    If you have pubes everywhere ("hairy beaver") its just disgusting, shave it off. My current gf has a naturally thin strip of longish hair which is totally fine.

    Is this the one with the 'weird face' that you don't like? Weird faces are disgusting. People with weird faces ought to do something about it ... it's just not natural.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What's wrong with a woman having a bush? (no political jokes at this point, please) It's a perfectly normal and natural thing for a woman to have. Pubic hair does exist for a reason. I'm only guessing here, but it was probably there in order to keep your privates warm back in the caveman days. The human body hasn't really changed in the last few thousand years.

    Back then, it was considered totally normal, even desirable in some societies, for a woman to have body hair. When on earth did this change? Since when did it become attractive for fully-grown women to look like little girls?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    stargalaxy wrote: »
    Since when did it become attractive for fully-grown women to look like little girls?

    That's always been the case. Why d'you reckon that almost every cosmetic product aimed at women is, and always has been aimed at keeping them looking young? Not that I think this is the reason for the pube thing. That's just a trend from porn, and it mainly occurs in porn for practical aesthetic reasons (i.e. you can see more that way).
  • SkiveSkive Posts: 15,282 Skive's The Limit
    I bet Tinkler's got pubes everywhere but wouldn't expect to shave them off :p

    From his picture he looks clean shaven, which would suggest he does indeed shave on regular occasion - something a lot of men do because natural facial hair is something most women now find disgusting or at lest highly unnatractive.
    I, like tinkler, find large amounts of pubic hair on women unnatractive.

    I don't feel upset that I have to maintain my body to certain standards to keep up with whats considered attractive. I shave my face, keep myself tidy down there, get my hair cut, wear tidy clothes, wear nice smells etc etc .. all 'unnatural' processes people have been doing for thousands of years. Style and trends change from different cultures and through differen ages, but people have been modifying there image since human history began.

    Lets not pretend it's something new, that only women feel they 'have' to do.
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If I were with a guy, I would only shave my muff if he shaved his nuggets.
  • SkiveSkive Posts: 15,282 Skive's The Limit
    Namaste wrote: »
    If I were with a guy, I would only shave my muff if he shaved his nuggets.

    You prefer shaven balls then?
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Skive wrote: »
    From his picture he looks clean shaven, which would suggest he does indeed shave on regular occasion - something a lot of men do because natural facial hair is something most women now find disgusting or at lest highly unnatractive.
    I, like tinkler, find large amounts of pubic hair on women unnatractive.

    I don't feel upset that I have to maintain my body to certain standards to keep up with whats considered attractive. I shave my face, keep myself tidy down there, get my hair cut, wear tidy clothes, wear nice smells etc etc .. all 'unnatural' processes people have been doing for thousands of years. Style and trends change from different cultures and through differen ages, but people have been modifying there image since human history began.

    Lets not pretend it's something new, that only women feel they 'have' to do.
    Did it look like I was having a go at Tinkler? It wasn't meant to, sorry if it came across like that. Perhaps more smilies in future :D:p:lol:

    Twas just a general comment, people can like what they like, I'm not fussed really.
  • SkiveSkive Posts: 15,282 Skive's The Limit
    Did it look like I was having a go at Tinkler? It wasn't meant to, sorry if it came across like that. Perhaps more smilies in future :D:p:lol:

    Twas just a general comment, people can like what they like, I'm not fussed really.

    Sorry most of that wasn't aimed at you either.
    It developed into a little rant didn't it? :D
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hehe yep!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my boyfriend is naturally hairy all over and i love it! i love cuddling up to his hairy chest and feeling his body hair against me when we are naked is just lovely!
    i keep myself trim down there but i dont shave as i have done in the past and it grows back all red and sore.
    my boyfriend has no objections and if he did it would be his problem and not mine! if someone loves you, it shouldnt matter what hair you have!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    trimmed is best.
    overgrown isn't attractive.
    shaven might be too far though...

    skive was right.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Guess it's a matter of personal taste, previous post is almost opposite of what I like - love hairy, but don't mind completely shaven - but find trimmed short a bit disappointing. For what it's worth, I like unshaved armpits and legs too, hardly a fetish as it doesn't bother me that much, it's just a preference - but it irritates me when people start talking about natural body hair as being 'disgusting' (rather think it's a media-driven concept).
  • SkiveSkive Posts: 15,282 Skive's The Limit
    readvise wrote: »
    rather think it's a media-driven concept.

    I don't think it's specifically media driven, just a cultural thing.

    People have been altering there appearance for thousands of years, long before the printing press and TV.

    That different trends and styles exist in society is something that won't be going away anytime soon. To suggest that this is a feminist issue as some have previously done on this site is rubbish.

    Shaving is a common trend here. Doesn't mean you should if you don't want to, and it doesn't mean not shaving is dirty.
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Trimmed gets my vote.

    And for all those who say they have a right to remain natural, of course they do. Just as long as they don't expect somebody to go down on them if a mouthful of foliage ain't their scene.

    And yes, it works both ways.

    I get the trimmers out occasionally. It's called sympathizing with your blowjobee.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Shaving / waxing is so much better IMO , removing hair from the area makes it so much more sensitive and helps to keep everything down below clean and hygienic . You don't have to remove it all to look like a little girl but just enough to make it neat and comfortable. My boyf also trims down below and shaves his balls - he reckons it makes his balls so much more sensitive and its more pleasurable for me. Each to their own though :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I am a girl, and d0nt shave, but wax everything 0ff. I cant stand the feeling that c0mes fr0m shaving d0wn there. I l0ve being hair free, it has made me m0re sensitive, and since I ad0re 0ral sex, is just practical. L0ts, s0me 0r n0ne, I d0nt really mind what girls have as l0ng as it isn't shaved.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Skive wrote: »
    You prefer shaven balls then?

    No... I just don't get repulsion to body hair. Fair enough, a trim for functional purposes, but I'd never go for the shaven haven look.
  • SkiveSkive Posts: 15,282 Skive's The Limit
    Namaste wrote: »
    No...

    You say you would only shave if he did then say you don't prefer shaven balls. :confused:

    What you don't get it seems to me is that different people find different things attractive. Different cultures different trends, some places it's tattoos, others it's peircings, others it's big long beards, here it's somewhat fashionable to shave or trim you pubic hair. Get over it. :D
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I trim and so does my bloke although I prefer him to leave his chest hair alone he does occasionally trim it too.

    I have on occasion through time issues/laziness left my hair to grow longer than I normally would and he doesn't care and the same can be said for him.

    Its nicer to go down on him with shorter hair although I enjoy doing it so longer hair wouldn't put me off, in short I think he is sex on legs regardless of the state of his body hair.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Shaven balls feel really nice when slapping against one's ass during Doggy.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Skive wrote: »
    You say you would only shave if he did then say you don't prefer shaven balls. :confused:

    What you don't get it seems to me is that different people find different things attractive. Different cultures different trends, some places it's tattoos, others it's peircings, others it's big long beards, here it's somewhat fashionable to shave or trim you pubic hair. Get over it. :D

    Some cultures, gential mutilation is acceptible... Big deal.

    It's Ok for a guy to be hairy, but not for a woman. Cultural norms do not justify anything.

    If somebody only likes shaved pussy, I find it creepy. When I look at a shaved pussy, I think how young it looks. Maybe the shaving is something to do with repressed tendencies towards younger women... I dunno.

    Different strokes for different folks, but I wouldn't shave... I just like to trim the hedge a bit.
  • SkiveSkive Posts: 15,282 Skive's The Limit
    Namaste wrote: »
    Some cultures, gential mutilation is acceptible... Big deal.

    You really think the two are comparable?
    Namaste wrote: »
    It's Ok for a guy to be hairy, but not for a woman. Cultural norms do not justify anything.

    This is bollocks. Men are expected to shave. It's isn't fashionable to have big facial hair. We trim it, we shave it. Clothes, smells,
    It's not just hair anyway. Both men and women modify there appearance in different ways to become more attractive.
    This idea that it's something women only have to do is rubbish.
    Namaste wrote: »
    If somebody only likes shaved pussy, I find it creepy. When I look at a shaved pussy, I think how young it looks. Maybe the shaving is something to do with repressed tendencies towards younger women... I dunno.

    Ah the old if you like your girls shaved you must be a repressed shaved paedophile. Pretty offensive and again rubbish.

    Namaste wrote: »
    Different strokes for different folks,

    Exactly. Dunno why you find it such a big issue.
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i prefer it shaved for th reason that it less smells of piss.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    In general, shaven is good. Hairy is pretty disgusting if you ask me. I don't mind when the other half hasn't shaved but when she does i realise how nice it is to touch and look at.

    I can find it repulsive if a girl is not atleast trimmed.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Skive wrote: »
    This is bollocks. Men are expected to shave. It's isn't fashionable to have big facial hair. We trim it, we shave it. Clothes, smells,
    It's not just hair anyway. Both men and women modify there appearance in different ways to become more attractive.
    This idea that it's something women only have to do is rubbish.
    It is still more acceptible for men to not shave body hair than for women.
    Ah the old if you like your girls shaved you must be a repressed shaved paedophile. Pretty offensive and again rubbish.
    I didn't say anyone is a pedophile. But I think that our obsession with youth could some how be linked.

    Exactly. Dunno why you find it such a big issue.
    I don't.

    I just do not see the point in women being obliged to shave our legs and pussy. It's just... Odd.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think what namaste is trying to say is that, if a guy is expecting her to shave her bits, then it should be reasonable that in exchange, he has to do the same.
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