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I thought the less you have sex the less you want it...

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Why am I gagging atm?!:crazyeyes

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Maybe cause your missing out?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What? The less you have sex the MORE you want it, surely??

    People who get it all the time take it for granted, whereas those who haven't had it in months whinge about that fact.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I actually find sex is like choc. If I don't have it for a while slowly the cravings start dying down, but eventually there comes the point that I just have to have it again. Admittedly if I get sex on too regular a basis I take it for granted, although not sure that means I don't want it as much. ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Apparently, there is evidence to confirm that the less sex you have, the less you want. However, I've never been convinced by this.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    With me, it's more like, if I'm having sex often, then the dry patches are torture (as is discovering that having anything inside you puts you in so much pain that you burst into tears :(), but if I'm not having sex at all, I'm not fussed about having it. Obviously there are the odd occasions where you'll be like OMG WANT SEXING, but it's not as bad as if I go from having it ALL THE TIME to not being able to have any.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I definitley agree with the less you have it the more you want it.

    I feel your pain :(
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    try being me....if i don't have sex for 2 weeks i get irritated...not physically, mentally....its bad! plus i need a new vibe...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think i want to start having it again.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i was thinking about joining a celebate druid order for a year... i think i would fail....
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    try being me....if i don't have sex for 2 weeks i get irritated...not physically, mentally....its bad! plus i need a new vibe...

    :yes: I'm like that, although once I get through the irritable phase the desire gets less.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it tends not to for me, which means when i do get some, i end up tearing them apart... not always good...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Glad I'm not alone then ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I haven't had any for er, ages!

    I need some, but actually i know when I get it, I'll just want more

    lol
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    PS im open to reasonable offers

    :lol:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Haha :D
  • JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
    MrG wrote: »
    I think i want to start having it again.
    Yeah, think thats a good idea for me too.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That's like saying by not eating you won't be hungry.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    junker wrote: »
    That's like saying by not eating you won't be hungry.

    Well you will be hungry but I guess after 5 days you get used to it! Remember all hunter kind of animals in 'the wild' might go a while without a meal the only reason we get hungry so often is because we're socialised to eat 3 times a day every day. As long as we were watered though physiologically we could 'run' by eating less frequently but more at each sitting.

    That's what I think anyway, might be crap!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    try being me....if i don't have sex for 2 weeks i get irritated...not physically, mentally....its bad! plus i need a new vibe...

    Same! I need good,regular servicing for my mental wellbeing! Just get so grrr if i havent had any for a while..and,sadly,the desire never gets any less..:/
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I just havnt been for far too long now :(
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wow, my sex drive isn't quite as high yours TT!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I haven't had any for a few months and I'm not that fussed about it because I know if I did it just for the sake of it then I wouldn't enjoy it and I'm not wanting a relationship.
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