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Constantly Relying On Others To Make Me Happy
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I think this may be related to http://vbulletin.thesite.org.uk/showthread.php?t=123466
I've noticed that I'm doing this an awful lot recently. It's always the same person and whenever I ask him to talk to me (or do other stuff for me) he will, providing he's not busy doing other stuff.
I'm worried now that where I'm constantly relying on him to make me happy (by talking to me whenever I want) I'm going to become really clingy again and possibnly have a repeat of last year, which I'd rather not have, as it will cause us problems again.
So, how do I stop doing this? I'm not sure if he even knows I'm doing this.
I've noticed that I'm doing this an awful lot recently. It's always the same person and whenever I ask him to talk to me (or do other stuff for me) he will, providing he's not busy doing other stuff.
I'm worried now that where I'm constantly relying on him to make me happy (by talking to me whenever I want) I'm going to become really clingy again and possibnly have a repeat of last year, which I'd rather not have, as it will cause us problems again.
So, how do I stop doing this? I'm not sure if he even knows I'm doing this.
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i agree. :]
No. I will do it sometimes if I want something from him, but that's generally it.