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Being In Between
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I am going to one of my cousins graduation this weekend, and another of my cousins (on the other side of the family) is not graduating, but helping with the graduation. I did not know that they knew each other, but the one who is organizing the graduation apparently bullied the other one when they were younger, and know they hate each other's guts! I'm good friends with both of them, and I value their friendship a lot, but I know that they can both be total assholes. I know that I should talk to them reasonably, but I doubt that they'd be reasonable. What the hell should I do?
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It sounds like, you have two cousins that dislike each other, both are having separate graduations in different places but on the same day, that right? If thats the case I'd go to the cousin's that is actually graduating. Simply 'helping with the ceremony' is hardly an acheivement really.
i love them both, but i know that they can (and probably will) be assholes. And I don't know how to deal with the situation I'm in.