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after it's over - giving things back...
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where do we stand on this people?
my ex has just text me to say he wants all the presents back he gave me as well as his spare (£2.99) nipple ring that's in my jewelry box. i told him to stop being childish coz i don't see why i should give back things that were gifts (dvds, cds, clothes, xmas pressies) and he can easily buy himself a new nipple ring as it cost sod all and why should i go out of my way for a three quid bit of steel (which i paid for anyway)?
what would you lot do?
my ex has just text me to say he wants all the presents back he gave me as well as his spare (£2.99) nipple ring that's in my jewelry box. i told him to stop being childish coz i don't see why i should give back things that were gifts (dvds, cds, clothes, xmas pressies) and he can easily buy himself a new nipple ring as it cost sod all and why should i go out of my way for a three quid bit of steel (which i paid for anyway)?
what would you lot do?
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If he'd left stuff that was his at yours then that is different.
My bf wouldnt come and get the stuff when we split coz he always wanted a reason to come back and wonder what I'm doing.
Change your number etc if u can too
Lol It just makes you feel better doesn't it, even though you know you're being pathetic and childish.
Anyway, like I said, I'd tell him bollocks, its yours now. 9 tenths of thingy is the law or something.
Thats what I used to always get told when I was like I WANT MY STUFF :
Good old days sigh.
Say this, "you have my heart, I want it back" and be all dramatic about it. :razz:
As for presents, tough shit. He gave them to you, now you've split up you dont have to give them back to him.
Tell him to feck off.
Unless you want to get back with him of course, in which case use it as an excuse to meet up and "talk".
Damn git left me the giant teddy bear though (guessing he didnt want to talk down the road with it) so that went in the bin.
Other than that i would say presents are presents...you give them to people...dont expect them back...same goes for engagements rings too. i never porned my ring but im sure i could get myself a nice new pair of shoes with it for the hassle of going through a break up:yippe:
I hope your ex see's how childish he is being!
However, I would now be inclined to tell him to fuck right off as they were presents - but if you dont want them then wreck them like lacrymosa says but I would dump them at his house!