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sex advice please
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Hi, i just joined here today and would like some advice or your opinion. I am in a relationship with a woman who i love and adore. we are currently looking for way's to spice up our sex life not that our sex is not good when we have it it is awsome. i am alway's the one who initiates sex , i need her to take control once and a while and come after me. right now she hurt her back and i know it's hard for her, she also knows that i love giving her oral more than anything do you think it would be rude of me or selfish if i asked her not to have sex but just to let me give her oral, and how can i get her to ask me i mean if she doesn't i will initiate but again do you think this is rude or selfish of me?
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At the moment you say your partner is experiencing back pain, and talking to her you'll have a better idea of what she's feeling up to at the moment and what would be better to wait on. You can find out more info about spicing up you and your partner's sex life here: TheSite.org's sex section