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when to say i love you,
BillieTheBot
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ok just curious as to how long people usually wait and to get some advice
i've been with my girlfriend for about 6 weeks i'm 21 she's 16, we both care for eachother alot but over the past week or so i've come to realise my feelings are more than that, i'm in love with her, i've never fallen in love this hard this fast before but have been in love before so i know this is it, trouble is i dunno if i should say anything, i want to so badly, certain times it almost jumps outta me, like last night we were out with her friends at the beach we were hanging out in a park on the cliff over looking the bay, the moon and stars were out and i was lying on a bench looking up at em, she left her friends came over and lay on top of me and we kissed and it felt like the perfect moment, i wanted to scream it out so bad, she knew i wanted to say something but i fobbed her off by asking her to bring her knee high boots to mine saturday night
i just cant help feeling that its too soon to say anything i think she's mature enough to hear it without getting scared off but at the same time i'm pretty sure her feelings havent developed that far yet, so i'm at a loss as to what to do,
i've been with my girlfriend for about 6 weeks i'm 21 she's 16, we both care for eachother alot but over the past week or so i've come to realise my feelings are more than that, i'm in love with her, i've never fallen in love this hard this fast before but have been in love before so i know this is it, trouble is i dunno if i should say anything, i want to so badly, certain times it almost jumps outta me, like last night we were out with her friends at the beach we were hanging out in a park on the cliff over looking the bay, the moon and stars were out and i was lying on a bench looking up at em, she left her friends came over and lay on top of me and we kissed and it felt like the perfect moment, i wanted to scream it out so bad, she knew i wanted to say something but i fobbed her off by asking her to bring her knee high boots to mine saturday night
i just cant help feeling that its too soon to say anything i think she's mature enough to hear it without getting scared off but at the same time i'm pretty sure her feelings havent developed that far yet, so i'm at a loss as to what to do,
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I said it first and then my bf went quiet.
He then said it back to me 5 mins later
longest 5 mins of my life!
You don't have to make a big deal out of it either, with my first proper girlfriend we were talking about something or other and it slipped out
"Aww, I love you!" followed by a five second silence, a kiss and she said "I love you aswell". Without wanting to get too cheesy about it, it was like something out of a film and I still remember it to this day.
Good luck with it anyway matey :thumb:
aww that is gorgeous
But I agree, say it when you are ready and comfortable. Don't force or push it, it'll come naturally
It'll probaly just slip out.
might leave it a little while, your right tho it will probably slip out on its own anyway before too long
Good luck though huni