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sick of been alone
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Okay shit title, paticularly given that I hardly post here and also that technically I spent 3-4 days a week around people (but usually the same person/people), but this year and last I've repeated the same bad year as 2006almost without deviation, just different people, sometimes not even that. It used to be the case that I could barely go a day without been invited somewhere and now I barely have a day where I do get invited somewhere. Given that I don't really get much fun out of been alone, have no call or reason to go out and have virtually no friends I haven't drank or used drugs heavily lately either, and I don't need to in order to have a good time, but I just wish I could be around someone a little more spontaneous and who would actually surprise me once in a while instead of doing the same boring, risk free things all the time. Bit of an incoherent rant at the moment, what I'm trying to say is that I want a life (or rather want back the life) where I spend a lot of time around people and a smaller amount of time alone or, to be more specific, nights where I party and nights where I don't.
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don't ask for advice if you don't want it. simple.
If you do want any advice, why don't you join a club or something to make new friends, or change jobs? Change something anyway - maybe your attitude to people trying to help you?
yeah. on my part i might have given a bit of a "simplistic" answer but ultimately i guess that is what it needs to come down to: for you to make some new friends and start enjoying yourself again. some of the best ways of doing that are like Pringle said to join a club or get involved in some other activity where you can meet different people and start to socialize again. if your life is boring you need to be taking steps to change it.
can you not talk to the person you spend "3-4 days a week with" about how you feel? - because i think if its really getting to you that badly then you need to talk to somebody about whats going on with you.