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My Highs
-Leaving my shitty stressful job to go travelling
-Going travelling on my own
-Finding someone who turned into my best friends.
-Getting over my ex
- Seeing My Chem twice and Fall out boy for the third year in a row.
- Discovering the delights of cyber candy.
- Being made a member of my accouting body. I was very, very proud.
Lows
- Being unemployed
Its been a pretty good one.
-Getting a good job
-Finally turning 18
(how depressing I reeally can't think of any more at the moment)
Lows
-One of my best friends dying
-Breaking my wrist
-Falling out with my best friend
-My grandad getting ill
continuing onto the second year of my course
re-finding a amazing friendship with my best mate
being alive
not being comsumed by the depths of the evil beast depression
making some great new mates, and matchmaking a couple of them
Lows:
heath problems
the breakdown of my 2 & 1/2 year relationship
the death of my thunder (cat)
feeling very emotionally/spritualy stuck
my band not coming together
my mum being nearly bankcrupt and having to bail her out, and not getting to see her for the best part of 9 months
loosing an amazing friend due to his belief that i've fucked up his life...that hurt/s
2007 wasn't the kindest year, but hopefully 2008 will be much much better.
Friend making me godmum to her little girl.
Lows
ex cheating on me twice and finding it so hard to be alone but I'm getting there.
Dad ill.
Realising I have to move away for job.
Roll on 2008!
Lovelife in general, but particularly moving in with Mr Man and our first proper Christmas together
getting a new job...
...and car
FINALLY getting my house sorted - now it is mine, all mine :hyper:
getting my lovely, sexy camera for Christmas
FINALLY managing to put on the weight I needed
And :
the majority of my body refusing to work as it should...
...thus weight starting to come off again.. NOOOOOOOOO etc
new job being much better than the old one, but still pretty shit
truly epic legal shenanigans leading up to house being mine, all mine
On balance, a good year. Roll on the next!
(I apologise for this!)
I found this very funny, but that was because at the start of the 06/07 season, my friend said 'We (Bradford) are going to get out of this division. And no, I don't mean down.'
Highs
- Discovering that I'm related to some very famous people (I'm sure I'm the only one who finds this really embarrassing)
- Getting the highest grades possible in both of the subjects I did
- Being finally able to drink milk (it just makes things slightly easier)
- Being finally registered partially sighted
- Meeting some lovely people (even if two of them did try [and failed] to get me drunk)
- Leaving the sh!thole that is school
- There possibly being a cure for one of the problems I have with my eyes
Lows
- Being accused of some really sh!tty stuff and therefore a friend of mine telling me he can't trust me (long story)
- Constantly losing weight and not being able to gain any
- My eyesight becoming worse
- Not being allowed to drive, ever
- Having a really unsupportive tutor
- Being diagnosed with IBS
- Being intolerant to nearly everything
- My health becoming worse
- Having a really hard time getting some sort of help for my self harm
- Being picked on because I'm thick, apparantely
- Nearly losing a friend
Finishing College and having a break from education.
Getting into my first choice uni, next year.
Meeting some people that have become some of my closest friends.
Going on holiday to Kavos with my mates.
Tranz-Mission way back in Easter.
Booking all my flights and getting my travelling sorted.
Lows
Getting very heavily into Cocaine.
Getting into lots of debt and shit with my family, due to the above.
Drifting apart from a good mate.
Feeling really lonely due to not having a girlfriend.
Putting on weight.
Taking control of my finances, finally paying off my student overdraft and not being in the red every month.
Going to Prague with two friends.
Joining a book group.
Finally deciding to quit a job that made me miserable.
Finding it easy to pick up work after quitting previous job.
Undertaking a TEFL course and Polish classes.
Having an improved relationship with alcohol.
My 25th birthday, managed to wangle my way into a swanky party at a Moroccan restaurant in London, had many gorgeous free drinks, cocktails and mingled with erm, top celebs like the Cheeky Girls and Shabnam from BB.
Lows
Parents getting divorced and selling the family home.
Feeling like a failure due to quitting job, and not knowing what to do with my life.
Not having the time and motivation to exercise and feeling gross.
Difficulty hearing.
Not enjoying going out like I used to.
Rain on my birthday for the first time in my LIFE!
Two awful hangovers.
Still being affected by my ex.
2007 wasn't a great year for me. It's mainly been about work and money. I'm hoping this year will give me some direction and I can actually have some fun. I feel so boring lately.
- Graduating
- Getting a great job that I love
- Moving to the south and buying a house
- Birth of my 1st nephew
Lows
- Uncle being dignosed with cancer (that put a dampner on xmas)
It's been a really good year and I'm looking forward to 2008 - so much planned and so much I want to do, should be equally good, just maybe not quite so many major things next year.
- Meeting my girlfriend and being so happy with her
- Passing my first year at University
- Getting my old job back that I really enjoy
Lows
- My Grandad dieing of cancer
- Money woes
- Being un-employed all summer. Tough!
- Severe hangovers with nasty hangover paranoia
~ Getting through the majority of my course at college
~ Holiday to Turkey
Lows:
~ Sister loosing her baby and having health problems after
~ Grandma spending the year in and out of hospital and still not being right despite it being 2008 now; miracles don't happen eh
~ Couple of lads from school dying in a car crash
That's not good, I'm really trying to think of some more high's, but really can't think of any more :-(
Just on paper those look really good. I'd like one of my years to be full of positives like that.
Passing my first year of nursing
Moving in with friends
Stopped smoking
Went to the gym a lot more
Got good reports for all of my placements
2 year anniversary with my boyfriend
Lows
No holiday because I was poor
Falling out bigtime with a friend
New house being a bit of a skanky student digs
3 of my cats dying in a year
Think it's been a pretty sucessful year all in all
Lows: Deaths of people i knew and feeling low at times from general wear and tear of life..
Finishing college.
Getting the results I needed to get to uni.
Getting engaged .
Meeting Janey .
Getting rid of people in my life I should have got rid of long beforehand.
Lows:
Uni. Blah.
Putting on far too much weight since starting there.
Being far too far away from Rich all the time.
Being skinted.
The beginning of summer where everyone just wanted to make me go insane.
People in general.
Think your missing someone really..........
Therefore, shush.
Back at Easter for almost a month, see ya then! :thumb:
Lows were dealing with the aftermath of the split, finding out my work mate (Who I manage) got half as much as me again in her pay rise!, the mud at Glastonbury...