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Ignore it all.
:yes:
lol
but ignore it
:yes: x 3. If you just ignore them, things will stop eventually, rather then acting like a brat, no matter how tempting and making things worse.
ignore it, i dont know why u didnt slap her one to
:yes: i agree!
Seriously though, just ignore it. You all sound like a bunch of 12-year-olds.
I know know my parts arnt exactly mature
You and I both know that if you were in a position where you were threatened and insulted, you would eventually crack.
I would have personally done a lot more than pour a bit of alcohol over someone if I had been constantly insulted and had someone squaring up to me.
Perhaps I act like a 12 year old, but I know I wouldnt just back down and drop it.
Kate- I think you need to deal with this directly with Chris, find out what his problem is, and tell him it is between him and you and not to piss around with getting other people involved.
If he doesn't listen then have a word with your boyfriend and see what he says. See if he has been like this before, or see if he has said anything to him.
Ignoring them is always an option, which I am not disputing, it is the comments on you're just as bad, oh its pathetic that wound me up!
But it can be scary aswell, i know people who dont like me and it does scare me the idea that they would find me alone in a club or something.
When i got into an arguement with an ex i eventually text him and said ' I know we both have issues with each other, but can we just be pleasant to each other because i cant be bothered with having to ignore each other in town and yelling etc...' perhaps you could do something like that and call a kinda truce with her just so you dont have to deal with the chance that she could retaliate