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Im 19,shes 17

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
Now,nothings happened and we`ve only chatted for a bit last night.
I havent decided whether to meet her or not today,I just feel a bit weird as shes younger than me.
I mean,Im only looking for some fun with girls at the moment and if someone said that thats what their upto with a 17 year old Id look at them a bit weird.
If we did do anything would I be doing anything illegal?
I think Ive already made my mind up here though,it makes me feel a bit uncomfortable.If she was 18 then maybe but 17.....way too young.
Anyone got any thoughts on this?What would any of the guys on here do?
Cheers.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why is 17 too young if 18 is ok? :confused:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think her age is an issue..nothign wrong with a 17 and a 19year old being together.

    Sounds like you haven't even met her yet though? And if you only want some fun then you need to gauge whether that's all she wants or if she wants more.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    that age gaps fine. If you did do anything it wouldn't be illegal.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    17 and 19 is nothing. My mate was going out with a 40 year old at 18!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think there's any problem with the age gap, at seventeen I was seeing a 23-year old. But it's whatever you feel comfortable with.

    You shouldn't let the age put you off if you really like her though.
  • Dr PirateDr Pirate Trust me, I'm a doctor Posts: 8,303
    This isn't the relationship forum.
  • JsTJsT TheSite Graduate Posts: 18,265 Incredible Poster
    Dr Pirate wrote: »
    This isn't the relationship forum.
    You are correct, it isn't.

    Very new isn't it.
  • Dr PirateDr Pirate Trust me, I'm a doctor Posts: 8,303
    JsT wrote: »
    You are correct, it isn't.

    Very new isn't it.
    Indeed it is.

    You Northern bastard ;D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, she's legal, isn't she?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The Leaf wrote: »
    Now,nothings happened and we`ve only chatted for a bit last night.
    I havent decided whether to meet her or not today,I just feel a bit weird as shes younger than me.
    I mean,Im only looking for some fun with girls at the moment and if someone said that thats what their upto with a 17 year old Id look at them a bit weird.
    If we did do anything would I be doing anything illegal?
    I think Ive already made my mind up here though,it makes me feel a bit uncomfortable.If she was 18 then maybe but 17.....way too young.
    Anyone got any thoughts on this?What would any of the guys on here do?
    Cheers.

    Well here in the states, it's illegal for a 19 year old to have sex with a 17 year old. I'm guessing you are from England. isn't the age of consent for sex like 16 over there?

    Anyway good luck!
  • JsTJsT TheSite Graduate Posts: 18,265 Incredible Poster
    Troy wrote: »
    Well here in the states, it's illegal for a 19 year old to have sex with a 17 year old. I'm guessing you are from England. isn't the age of consent for sex like 16 over there?

    Anyway good luck!

    Yes it is.
    Dr Pirate wrote: »
    Indeed it is.

    You Northern bastard ;D

    Big up my Southern homie.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    JsT wrote: »
    Yes it is.

    I thought so, thanks for letting me know for sure!

    The Leaf wrote: »
    Now,nothings happened and we`ve only chatted for a bit last night.
    I havent decided whether to meet her or not today,I just feel a bit weird as shes younger than me.
    I mean,Im only looking for some fun with girls at the moment and if someone said that thats what their upto with a 17 year old Id look at them a bit weird.
    If we did do anything would I be doing anything illegal?
    I think Ive already made my mind up here though,it makes me feel a bit uncomfortable.If she was 18 then maybe but 17.....way too young.
    Anyone got any thoughts on this?What would any of the guys on here do?
    Cheers.

    She's legal, so why are you worrying about it? 2 year age gap is nothing. Enjoy yourself and scream who's your daddy to her lmao:D

    Good luck, hope everything works out for you both!
  • Dr PirateDr Pirate Trust me, I'm a doctor Posts: 8,303
    JsT wrote: »
    Yes it is.



    Big up my Southern homie.
    What's the gwan ting blard?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    that age gaps fine. If you did do anything it wouldn't be illegal.

    In the UK...
  • JsTJsT TheSite Graduate Posts: 18,265 Incredible Poster
    Dr Pirate wrote: »
    What's the gwan ting blard?
    bigupmehomie!
  • Dr PirateDr Pirate Trust me, I'm a doctor Posts: 8,303
    JsT wrote: »
    bigupmehomie!
    Big up huskey!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Im 19, and in my date thread thingy, shes 17. im absolutely fine with it.:)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    its normal to have 2 year differences...
    most guys only care if a girls under 16, no one will think your weird soo many people have way larger age gaps
  • JsTJsT TheSite Graduate Posts: 18,265 Incredible Poster
    Dr Pirate wrote: »
    Big up huskey!
    Jah blesssssssssss
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My bloke is 17 years older!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Bri-namite wrote: »
    Why is 17 too young if 18 is ok? :confused:

    same thought... That's probably not even a year. What if she's 17 and 7 months and the second she turns 18 it's WOW TOTALLY DIFFERENT.

    if you look 'weird' at people, because they had something with a 17 year old with 19 then yes, better leave it.
    Curvy_lass wrote: »
    My bloke is 17 years older!

    you always let that sound as if you are mighty proud of that fact.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    StrubbleS wrote: »
    you always let that sound as if you are mighty proud of that fact.
    Proud that I'm in love, despite the judgements...then yes, I am.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm 29 and I'd happy go ±7 years. Ultimately, as long as they're legal (16/18) then the law is satisfied. Don't let age alone be a barrier.
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